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New guy, first post. Kinda long...

Post by Ksboy71 » April 7th, 2019, 8:33 pm

Hello,

I'm a new guy here and finally decided to make a post. Short Bio...Im an average, decent looking guy, I've always been fairly slim but I have good muscle tone. I'm not active in sports or a member at any gym. I've just normally had more physically demanding occupations. I have felt awkward around girls since I was young, and a sense of jealously about the guys that made it seem so easy. Spare for a few dates here and there in my 20s I never had a steady girlfriend, but all of my friends were getting engaged, living with their girlfriends, or having kids. All while I felt like an outsider because I was the odd guy out. When I was in my 30s I met a girl and ended up dating and then eventually married. It started out so well and I thought I had just been feeling to sorry for myself and didn't put enough of myself out there when I was younger because I finally did find someone. We were married for 10 years and had ups and downs, never had any kids and mainly spoiled ourselves. What I didn't know was as much as I believed we were a happy couple she was dating other guys. I was gullible and naive. Looking back I know now that she manipulated me and created an image for her family and friends that she had a good, nice guy with a job and had a strong marriage. That part of my story is another chapter altogether. We eventually divorced 6 years ago and I've only had sex twice since. Once was with an old friend not long after the divorce and the other was with a big girl I took home from a bar I was at for a coworkers party in 2015. I've tried social interaction, dating sites, church groups and even just trying to say hello in the grocery store but it never has lead to anything. I feel like there is a certain hiarchy and social status based on who we are in life and what we offer to it, and as unfair as it is I had to learn to accept my situation as it is for now. I haven't given up all hope and at the same time I know I probably wont get lucky again any time soon either. I guess knowing that I'm not alone and there are others that are in my same position gives me an opportunity to learn more about coping.

Thanks for your input.
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Re: New guy, first post. Kinda long...

Post by WelcomeToMyDNA » April 7th, 2019, 8:52 pm

You aren't blackpilled are ya?

But anyway, this is the moral of the story; women will always level up and go for chads when they have a normie/chadlite beta cuck as their husband. It's why you aren't ever "safe" in life. Just because someone gets lucky once and gets a girlfriend or secures a marriage, it doesn't mean that it's going to last. Women are always on the prowl for the hottest man around. They can always get him. So, they stay with their beta man so she can have financial security while she goes out and fucks other, genetically superior men. Chad always win, even when he loses. All chads have to do is simply exist and women will flock to them like fuсking pigeons on crumbs of bread. If what you say is true and you are a "decent looking guy" with "good muscle tone", then go out and find a woman with all your might. If no women bat an eye at you, then you are just ugly or cursed....or both
It won't get better
Just string along
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Re: New guy, first post. Kinda long...

Post by Lordgoro » April 7th, 2019, 11:45 pm

Ksboy71 wrote:
April 7th, 2019, 8:33 pm
Hello,

I'm a new guy here and finally decided to make a post. Short Bio...Im an average, decent looking guy, I've always been fairly slim but I have good muscle tone. I'm not active in sports or a member at any gym. I've just normally had more physically demanding occupations. I have felt awkward around girls since I was young, and a sense of jealously about the guys that made it seem so easy. Spare for a few dates here and there in my 20s I never had a steady girlfriend, but all of my friends were getting engaged, living with their girlfriends, or having kids. All while I felt like an outsider because I was the odd guy out. When I was in my 30s I met a girl and ended up dating and then eventually married. It started out so well and I thought I had just been feeling to sorry for myself and didn't put enough of myself out there when I was younger because I finally did find someone. We were married for 10 years and had ups and downs, never had any kids and mainly spoiled ourselves. What I didn't know was as much as I believed we were a happy couple she was dating other guys. I was gullible and naive. Looking back I know now that she manipulated me and created an image for her family and friends that she had a good, nice guy with a job and had a strong marriage. That part of my story is another chapter altogether. We eventually divorced 6 years ago and I've only had sex twice since. Once was with an old friend not long after the divorce and the other was with a big girl I took home from a bar I was at for a coworkers party in 2015. I've tried social interaction, dating sites, church groups and even just trying to say hello in the grocery store but it never has lead to anything. I feel like there is a certain hiarchy and social status based on who we are in life and what we offer to it, and as unfair as it is I had to learn to accept my situation as it is for now. I haven't given up all hope and at the same time I know I probably wont get lucky again any time soon either. I guess knowing that I'm not alone and there are others that are in my same position gives me an opportunity to learn more about coping.

Thanks for your input.
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Re: New guy, first post. Kinda long...

Post by Ksboy71 » April 8th, 2019, 10:48 pm

Yes, looking back I truly feel like I was a sucker when I met my ex-wife. I wasn't looking seriously for a girlfriend at that time, but the way it all felt and me being a guy to take home and meet the parents and vice versa ...things seemed normal or the way it should be. But not to long into it I knew she always wanted the newest whatever...phone, purse, shoes, or car and as stressed out as i was working and taking care of our house I was just happy that I had someone. Our schedules changed and she started working 2nd shift, and thus began her affairs. I ended up finding out and eventually we amicably divorced. I ended up feeling like I was holding her back from being happy and upgrading to a guy that is a better provider. So, yes I am a beta, and I have also been a true cuckold. Now, today I'm a firm believer that I'm incel, I have tried, and still do try to meet women but I get anxious and shy, a bit to cautious maybe. I tried tinder for a while and not once got a response or any likes on my profile so I gave up there to.
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Re: New guy, first post. Kinda long...

Post by Lordgoro » April 9th, 2019, 11:24 am

Give up PERIOD!!! Concentrate on getting things that you want, OR DOING things that youve always dreamed of!! Forget about dating, its a waste of time... GO bungee jumping, skydive, play video games, read a great book, go see new places, etc... FInd your OWN meaning in life, since no women will ever willingly give you that... Hell, see lots of escorts if you can afford it! Concentrate on yourself! Trust me, youll be happier in the long run!
"You're waiting to hear about my THEM aren't you? Every paranoid/schizophrenic has one of THEM,or THEY, an IT? and, you want to hear about MY THEM, don't you?"
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Re: New guy, first post. Kinda long...

Post by DarthZaza » April 17th, 2019, 4:22 am

Lordgoro wrote:
April 9th, 2019, 11:24 am
Give up PERIOD!!! Concentrate on getting things that you want, OR DOING things that youve always dreamed of!! Forget about dating, its a waste of time... GO bungee jumping, skydive, play video games, read a great book, go see new places, etc... FInd your OWN meaning in life, since no women will ever willingly give you that... Hell, see lots of escorts if you can afford it! Concentrate on yourself! Trust me, youll be happier in the long run!
100% agree to this , ı stopped doing things like this ; now I read comic books (a lot of Dc) play games , watch some tv shows , watch funny YouTube videos , go to university ext.... you need to do the things you enjoy , not Chase around wh*res and stuff
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