Just being friends

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Re: Just being friends

Post by Lordgoro » April 16th, 2019, 3:34 am

In my case NO.. I dont even have MALE friends, only associates that I pass in the street from time to time... And from my experiences, I have zero interest in having female friends, I literally have nothing in common, and no sympathy for females at this point... However, Im a special case, im old and grizzled, and jaded.. SO I am not your "average incel", Im a special case.. Ive actually had sex MANY times, however, Its always been with escorts..
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Re: Just being friends

Post by tremor » April 16th, 2019, 7:56 am

This is what we call an orbiter.
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Re: Just being friends

Post by TheNorthGrove » April 17th, 2019, 2:56 am

tremor wrote:
April 16th, 2019, 7:56 am
This is what we call an orbiter.
I’m asking about someone who you wouldn’t want to date for whatever reason—simply being friends. Would you still call yourself an orbiter? Is there any possibility or benefit from simply having a female presence, as I’ve heard people say that it brings them a different energy. Whether you want to attribute that to pheromones or something spiritual or whatever, that’s up to you.
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Re: Just being friends

Post by lordoftheincels » April 17th, 2019, 3:32 am

TheNorthGrove wrote:
April 16th, 2019, 3:03 am
Okay, then what makes you an incel? I already know you believe looks are it, but what do you think it would take for you to not consider yourself an incel? And do you believe having female friends would benefit or help you in any way?
Are you actually trolling or what?
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Re: Just being friends

Post by TheNorthGrove » April 17th, 2019, 3:47 am

lordoftheincels wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 3:32 am
TheNorthGrove wrote:
April 16th, 2019, 3:03 am
Okay, then what makes you an incel? I already know you believe looks are it, but what do you think it would take for you to not consider yourself an incel? And do you believe having female friends would benefit or help you in any way?
Are you actually trolling or what?
Not in the slightest, this was a serious inquiry...what part of that offends you?
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Re: Just being friends

Post by lordoftheincels » April 17th, 2019, 3:48 am

TheNorthGrove wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 3:47 am
lordoftheincels wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 3:32 am
TheNorthGrove wrote:
April 16th, 2019, 3:03 am
Okay, then what makes you an incel? I already know you believe looks are it, but what do you think it would take for you to not consider yourself an incel? And do you believe having female friends would benefit or help you in any way?
Are you actually trolling or what?
Not in the slightest, this was a serious inquiry...what part of that offends you?
Its not offensive, its just completely nonsensical in every conceivable way.
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Re: Just being friends

Post by TheNorthGrove » April 17th, 2019, 3:57 am

When he said that one interaction wasn’t going to change who he was, I took that to mean that simply being approached by a woman who wanted to willingly have sex with you wasn’t enough. That It’s not simply about having sex and having a woman approach you based simply on that. And if that’s the case, then I want to know what would have to change for you to not consider yourself an incel, as clearly I’m missing something. The part about having a female friend was because I’ve met people who said that simply having a female presence has made a difference and I wanted to know if anyone here even thought that would help or it would be different if the interaction with women didn’t involve trying to date them seeing as one of the problems is female dating psychology.
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Re: Just being friends

Post by BrettyBoy » April 17th, 2019, 8:57 am

I don’t feel the need to have a female friend unless it’s a female friends with benefits otherwise no point for me. If other men get to have females that act like their girlfriend, it’s unfair if I don’t get the same type of thing.
I have had no real life female attention in awhile but craving it badly.
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Re: Just being friends

Post by tremor » April 17th, 2019, 9:01 am

TheNorthGrove wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 2:56 am
I’m asking about someone who you wouldn’t want to date for whatever reason—simply being friends. Would you still call yourself an orbiter? Is there any possibility or benefit from simply having a female presence, as I’ve heard people say that it brings them a different energy. Whether you want to attribute that to pheromones or something spiritual or whatever, that’s up to you.
Yes, because it still is orbiting. You give unmotivated validation without expecting anything of romantic sort in return. Norman orbiters might get occasional emotional support or maybe going for a walk for their investments, but incels do not and some of them report they don't qualify even for orbiting because of high standards.

Yes, it may be beneficial as long as she chooses to cooperate with the leader of the team and not just imitate activity or prostitute herself for attention. "Female presence" somehow takes some power away from the leader and it's over if he can't handle it. And it's a hard thing to do.

Also it doesn't help anyone in safe spaces like this one, because we don't pursue any particular goals and so "cooperation with the leader" isn't a concept. Imitating activity on a forum makes no sense, therefore the only remaining option is attention-whoring which is bannable. That's why ladies who come up with the idea of posting outside the bluepill section end up disappointed.
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Re: Just being friends

Post by TheNorthGrove » April 17th, 2019, 3:38 pm

tremor wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 9:01 am
TheNorthGrove wrote:
April 17th, 2019, 2:56 am
I’m asking about someone who you wouldn’t want to date for whatever reason—simply being friends. Would you still call yourself an orbiter? Is there any possibility or benefit from simply having a female presence, as I’ve heard people say that it brings them a different energy. Whether you want to attribute that to pheromones or something spiritual or whatever, that’s up to you.
Yes, because it still is orbiting. You give unmotivated validation without expecting anything of romantic sort in return. Norman orbiters might get occasional emotional support or maybe going for a walk for their investments, but incels do not and some of them report they don't qualify even for orbiting because of high standards.

Yes, it may be beneficial as long as she chooses to cooperate with the leader of the team and not just imitate activity or prostitute herself for attention. "Female presence" somehow takes some power away from the leader and it's over if he can't handle it. And it's a hard thing to do.

Also it doesn't help anyone in safe spaces like this one, because we don't pursue any particular goals and so "cooperation with the leader" isn't a concept. Imitating activity on a forum makes no sense, therefore the only remaining option is attention-whoring which is bannable. That's why ladies who come up with the idea of posting outside the bluepill section end up disappointed.
I’m not trying to take away power from anyone on here...this forum isn’t meant for me, it’s where you guys can come and vent. I simply wanted to ask a question and gain some understanding while at the same time hopefully offer some sort of suggestion or help (or cope if you prefer).
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