Personally, I'm a virgin but I don't really care, I'll find a girl when the time is right. For now I'll just work on my passions, like racing cars. But why does getting with a girl really matter so much. You shouldn't let another person define you or stop you from experiencing all there is to life. Are you really in it for the sex, or do you just want companionship? Can't you just indulge in one of your passions in life? Maybe find another goal?