What do I do?

Lenno

Incels.Net Junior
So I’m 42 with severe mental health problems ans social phobias. How do I meet a sexual partner? If I want sex it costs money one way or another and I’m on benefits so don’t have much money. I’m so frustrated. Women in uk don’t dress modestly at all and when I get turned on it’s masturbation to porn or money I have to spend. I’m so angry about this. What can I do?
 

lowstatusmale

The Incel of Incels
So I’m 42 with severe mental health problems ans social phobias. How do I meet a sexual partner? If I want sex it costs money one way or another and I’m on benefits so don’t have much money. I’m so frustrated. Women in uk don’t dress modestly at all and when I get turned on it’s masturbation to porn or money I have to spend. I’m so angry about this. What can I do?
That a tough one. Are there any support groups, social rehab groups or drop-in centers for people with mental health issues? Maybe you could try volunteering or attending one of these. Are you averse to attending church?

I don't meet many people in my day to day life. I have a history of mental health problems and I am 49. Social rehab has been a big obstacle in my recovery, so I understand. I have found a healthy work situation has helped with at least some semblance of being normal.

That's the thing. We need to get out there. And even when we do most people won't be interested in us. Unfortunately, it's the only way things will improve. There are some UK guys in this group. Maybe you could try meeting up with someone here and hitting the clubs. A wingman could help.
 

Serpents reign

Incels.Net Junior
So I’m 42 with severe mental health problems ans social phobias. How do I meet a sexual partner? If I want sex it costs money one way or another and I’m on benefits so don’t have much money. I’m so frustrated. Women in uk don’t dress modestly at all and when I get turned on it’s masturbation to porn or money I have to spend. I’m so angry about this. What can I do?
It's over I'm 30 yo virgin no friends no career nothing if you don't have at least one or two of those down by 21 you are fucked
 

lowstatusmale

The Incel of Incels
Lenno said:
So I’m 42 with severe mental health problems ans social phobias. How do I meet a sexual partner? If I want sex it costs money one way or another and I’m on benefits so don’t have much money. I’m so frustrated. Women in uk don’t dress modestly at all and when I get turned on it’s masturbation to porn or money I have to spend. I’m so angry about this. What can I do?
It's over I'm 30 yo virgin no friends no career nothing if you don't have at least one or two of those down by 21 you are fucked
I still believe it's possible to recover. It takes a lot of effort. I'm still trying. I can't say I've gotten results yet, but I am more hopeful.

The lack of love and success we experience when we are young is traumatizing and stays with us as we get older. Even if there are relationships available to us, there is a lot of work to be done to heal our past traumas.
 
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TheRiddler

Incels.net Super Villian
You could ask your government..... the ones who are engineering society in a way of making it more difficult for you..
 

lowstatusmale

The Incel of Incels
You could ask your government..... the ones who are engineering society in a way of making it more difficult for you..
How bad are things in the UK? I hear stuff; see posts. Sounds like first-world hell-hole for men.
The women are supposed to be awful. I worked with one. She looked and acted like Snow White, but was Queen Grimhilde for those who saw who she really was.
 

InkedOut

Incels.Net Junior
So I’m 42 with severe mental health problems ans social phobias. How do I meet a sexual partner? If I want sex it costs money one way or another and I’m on benefits so don’t have much money. I’m so frustrated. Women in uk don’t dress modestly at all and when I get turned on it’s masturbation to porn or money I have to spend. I’m so angry about this. What can I do?
You want brutally honest advice here it is.
You don't want sex you want a person that appreciates you as a person and what you have to offer to the world, and to them.
Sex does not exist in a vacuum.
You are low IQ evidenced by the fact that you've been unsuccessful in the economic hierarchy and lack the necessary understanding of your psychological deficiencies to even describe them accurately despite having over three decades to do so.
Looking at your life trajectory and understanding the factors that defined it aren't going to change, it is safe to assume it's over. It's cope or rope.
 

InkedOut

Incels.Net Junior
Lenno said:
So I’m 42 with severe mental health problems ans social phobias. How do I meet a sexual partner? If I want sex it costs money one way or another and I’m on benefits so don’t have much money. I’m so frustrated. Women in uk don’t dress modestly at all and when I get turned on it’s masturbation to porn or money I have to spend. I’m so angry about this. What can I do?
It's over I'm 30 yo virgin no friends no career nothing if you don't have at least one or two of those down by 21 you are fucked
Amazing how we can see 20, 30 years into the future like it's a fucking superpower
 
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