I've had sex before but never a relationship. I am not quite so confident with women as to have sex frequently. I'm not very interested in casual sex anyway, and am confident that I could be easily motivated to attract almost any girl, should they have a true romantic appeal to me. As much as I would like a relationship, nobody at this particular moment appeals to me very much. I am not really very concerned about it. I joined this site exclusively to use all the self loathing and mediocrity found herein as a form of negative motivation, i.e away from mediocrity rather than toward greatness. Now your comments.