The #1 trait that all losers have in common

Che

Staff
it´s the act of trying.

Trying
to be good at something.

Trying to get a girl.

Trying to get that promotion.


The truth is the people that are at the top of their field never had to try anything. They were always the top dogs and always flew above the competition with zero effort.

Every successful pro athlete obliterated the competition during their childhood despite going through the same training. They were BORN talented, they never had to try.

Chad never had to lift a weight or put in effort getting laid. A sure fire way to tell if you are unattractive is if you have to gymcel, dress well or get a trendy haircut in hopes of getting laid.

It´s not just like that when it comes to getting girls, it´s literally like that in every facet of life.

in Germany there is a great proverb which goes something like this:

"The person who god helps will always be more successful than the person who gets up early"
 

PolishJames

Premium Incel
Yeah
If you're an incel you know that. You know that you're a loser. Your brain knews that you're Sigma Male. There's nothing anything resembling free will. You're just a spectator of actions taken by your neural system
 

wizardcel

Brazilian sexual marxist.
The old folk had a lot of wisdom. We just use different wording now. The modern version would be " The person who's helped by genetics will always be more successful than the person who gets up early".
 

SupraImmaParham

Incels.Net Novice
Makes sense, but a lot of people say that they are successful because they had to work hard. I guess in a way, working hard is trying but different in that the people who work hard eventually succeed. As Yoda in "Star wars" once said: "Do or do not. There is no try"
 

GokuGetEmAttitu

Incels.Net Novice
This isn't true, even most athletes have to train regularly to hone their God given talent, especially when they start aging. I know I constantly work very hard to be semi-successful in my professional life.

But I worked even harder to be ideal husband material (ffs that's the whole reason I even built a career) and have constantly failed at building a family or even getting dates.

Aside from the occasional prodigy hard work is required to excel in most things, but relationships aren't one of those things. 99% of that is height/frame/looks, and unless your job/money/skills/ect gives you an edge over another Chad then it's pretty much worthless to women in a world where they can fuck endless miles of Chad dick via tinder then get the government to support the bastards for them.

All that said, SJWs are working to ensure your statements are correct across the board, it's very scary how the hiring dynamic has started to shift this past decade so that being a woman or non-caucasian not only gives you an edge but is starting to outright disqualify far more qualified applicants because "muh diversiteh". There's also the fact that we have used many minority owned businesses for work in the past that literally do nothing but attach their name to a job and collect payment just so you can meet government mandated minority owned business quotas. It will be interesting to see how the western world collapses when raсe/gender are universally considered more important than knowledge, effort, and skill.
 

fish2016

Incels.Net Master
Every successful pro athlete obliterated the competition during their childhood despite going through the same training. They were BORN talented, they never had to try.
Not really, GSP was relentless bullied and beaten as a child, challenged his main bully to fight tons of times and lost all of them
 

lowstatusmale

Old Christain Cel
I'm low-motivation and wired this way. I need momentum (which is different from motivation) for my life to improve. I've never had for very long durations in my life except when it came to working long hours at low-paying jobs. Momentum is hard to come by unless people believe in you.

I'm also low-ablity. Lucky for me, I am high-moral-character and some people recognize they can trust and rely on me. I wouldn't get any breaks without that.
 

Required

Well-Known Asshole
I don't even think it's about trying.. Real losers won't even try because they think beforehand they are gonna suck/not get it. That's me, it's very rare when i would actually ''try'' something. I rather stick to what i know, and yea that is a pretty small field. Idk.. I don't like the commitment i would have to make.

Like for example, i want to get my trucklicense, then my brain is starting to process all possible outcomes. Do i want to work as a truckdriver? Yes, but a very specific one. I don't want long hours, no nights and not getting up early (hmmm)

Is the trucklicense gonna come in handy? Yes, in certain aspects it will, like for that 1 time your moving you can rent a real truck.. Or at very specific odd-jobs (i would like to be a drivers ed teacher)

Then it's gonna cost quite a bit of money to get everything (say 4-5000€) and what if i will not make it? I would lose a huge sum of money, just for trying.. (happened in the past to with certain investments) and i do NOT like that.

So then i would just procastinate untill forever probably.. Only reason i would still want to get it is because i have this weird dream of getting all categories on my driverslicense. But spending even more then that 5000€ is not worth it to me.

Another example would be.. Following education that takes longer then a couple of months.. I don't want to be bonded to a 2 years education so i just won't do it.. Even tho if i would've done it 2 years ago i might've been better off..

Get me?
 

Now Enlightened

Incels.Net Regular
As a fellow incel, I disagree. I've been in other sports area. And working hard indeed get result. Most incels are under the illusion that for one to be an incel you have to tick everything in the list which is wrong. I won in my sports but it is a myth I am getting laid. I'm still a virgin and feel like a loser, yes but working hard does get the result.
Think about it this way. If you're 5`3. It's over for you. You need to quit life. However, as a manlet you can still learn and succeed in other areas.

Women will not give those talents any credit. Because at the end of the day, in their eyes, you're an ugly 5`3. That's all there is. But it doesn't mean the 5`3 can't win in some areas he chose. He can learn a piano and master it. He can learn a language and master it. But women will never see those great qualities. They can't get pass the fact that you are 5`3. They can't imagine hanging out with you. They can't fathom the idea their friends will know she is dating a manlet. So winning in life doesn't matter. You will never get the girl if you're ugly.
 

lowstatusmale

Old Christain Cel
As a fellow incel, I disagree. I've been in other sports area. And working hard indeed get result. Most incels are under the illusion that for one to be an incel you have to tick everything in the list which is wrong. I won in my sports but it is a myth I am getting laid. I'm still a virgin and feel like a loser, yes but working hard does get the result.
Think about it this way. If you're 5`3. It's over for you. You need to quit life. However, as a manlet you can still learn and succeed in other areas.

Women will not give those talents any credit. Because at the end of the day, in their eyes, you're an ugly 5`3. That's all there is. But it doesn't mean the 5`3 can't win in some areas he chose. He can learn a piano and master it. He can learn a language and master it. But women will never see those great qualities. They can't get pass the fact that you are 5`3. They can't imagine hanging out with you. They can't fathom the idea their friends will know she is dating a manlet. So winning in life doesn't matter. You will never get the girl if you're ugly.
I competed in long distance running for several years and did very well. Never got any attention from women though. Skinny and ugly AF isn't really attractive even when it's coupled with some sort of worldly success.
 

Epictetus

Incels.Net Novice
It is an interesting theory, after I have no girl and I don't even try, because I have psychological problems.
 
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