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GreekGod

Incels.Net Junior
Hey guys, I have been going out a lot more lately to work on my social skills. I feel like the problem is that I don't feel very motivated to approach women and talk to them. I have been feeling very apathetic with a lot of things in general. Is this normal? Any tips for overcoming apathy? I really want to start working on my social skills again so I can potentially get laid.
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

I am who I am and I can be no other
friendly reminder that having social skills doesn't get you laid unless you're a chad (in which case social skills make no difference because muh confidence means nothing to women)
 

ortharzeal

EteRnal Evil.
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
friendly reminder that having social skills doesn't get you laid unless you're a chad (in which case social skills make no difference because muh confidence means nothing to women)
Cope, socialcirclemaxing is how normies get leftovers. As an incel, hard to properly moneymax and get high-end copes without "social skills".
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

I am who I am and I can be no other
tremor said:
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
friendly reminder that having social skills doesn't get you laid unless you're a chad (in which case social skills make no difference because muh confidence means nothing to women)
Cope, socialcirclemaxing is how normies get leftovers. As an incel, hard to properly moneymax and get high-end copes without "social skills".
Maybe with normies it'll work, but an ugly incel can only SEAmaxx (if he's white that is) or rope to free himself
 

ortharzeal

EteRnal Evil.
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
Maybe with normies it'll work, but an ugly incel can only SEAmaxx (if he's white that is) or rope to free himself
SEAmaxing takes money.

Also commiting suіcіde, becoming a tranny or going gay are not ascension because, even though you quit inceldom, you stop existing as a man.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
GreekGod said:
Hey guys, I have been going out a lot more lately to work on my social skills. I feel like the problem is that I don't feel very motivated to approach women and talk to them. I have been feeling very apathetic with a lot of things in general. Is this normal? Any tips for overcoming apathy? I really want to start working on my social skills again so I can potentially get laid.
"approaching women" is a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME BUB!! If you are NOT a chad type, women DONT want to be bothered, or "approached".. ALL you are doing is causing yourself unnecessary EXTREME pain, anguish, and embarrassment... Now, if you LIKE those things, all the more power to ya.. Personally I dont.. If you actually want to laid laid guaranteed, save some bucks, and get an escort... No fuss, no muss, and NOT a waste of your time... :cool:
 

GreekGod

Incels.Net Junior
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
friendly reminder that having social skills doesn't get you laid unless you're a chad (in which case social skills make no difference because muh confidence means nothing to women)
You must have really good social skills for you to say that. If I may ask, how many female acquaintances do you have?
 

GreekGod

Incels.Net Junior
tremor said:
Cold approaching is Chad-only, it's normal to feel no motivation to do that.
Have you ever done cold approach? I have and honestly it is amazing. You form amazing relationships with both women and men. It is how I met one of my friends. I only became friends with her, but it is one of the greatest friendships I have in college.
 

Cloudm16

Incels.Net Junior
Hey man, listen. I joined this forum because I wanted to gain a perspective on inceldom. I’m sort of doing an impromptu psudo-academic study and I try to provide any relevant info on my way. To answer your question, apathy can be a sign of misuse of a controlled substance (if you use any drugs), or depression. However, I would consult a clinician before I’d self diagnose. As far as comments that say that it is unwise to walk up to a woman and ask them, just know that the chances are ALWAYS against you. The name of the game is this, EVERY man is told no more than yes. It is a game of emotional endurance. Just ask man. Just ask. The more you ask, the higher your statistical chances that you will receive a yes. It behooves ones self to have social skills, as they can help you make friends and form relationships. I wish you lots of luck on your way to happieness friend.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
Cloudm16 said:
Hey man, listen. I joined this forum because I wanted to gain a perspective on inceldom. I’m sort of doing an impromptu psudo-academic study and I try to provide any relevant info on my way. To answer your question, apathy can be a sign of misuse of a controlled substance (if you use any drugs), or depression. However, I would consult a clinician before I’d self diagnose. As far as comments that say that it is unwise to walk up to a woman and ask them, just know that the chances are ALWAYS against you. The name of the game is this, EVERY man is told no more than yes. It is a game of emotional endurance. Just ask man. Just ask. The more you ask, the higher your statistical chances that you will receive a yes. It behooves ones self to have social skills, as they can help you make friends and form relationships. I wish you lots of luck on your way to happieness friend.
What BULLSHIT ADVICE!! Yeah, TECHNICALLY, you COULD win the POWERBALL as well, but are you going to? I wouldnt BET on it!! You could play the powerball for 100 lifetimes and NEVER get lucky!! Same thing approaching girls.. You are ONLY hurting yourself, between your sanity, your dignity, and you ego... It AINT gonna happen buddy.. Sorry..
 

Malakai

Incels.Net Novice
Lordgoro said:
Cloudm16 said:
Hey man, listen. I joined this forum because I wanted to gain a perspective on inceldom. I’m sort of doing an impromptu psudo-academic study and I try to provide any relevant info on my way. To answer your question, apathy can be a sign of misuse of a controlled substance (if you use any drugs), or depression. However, I would consult a clinician before I’d self diagnose. As far as comments that say that it is unwise to walk up to a woman and ask them, just know that the chances are ALWAYS against you. The name of the game is this, EVERY man is told no more than yes. It is a game of emotional endurance. Just ask man. Just ask. The more you ask, the higher your statistical chances that you will receive a yes. It behooves ones self to have social skills, as they can help you make friends and form relationships. I wish you lots of luck on your way to happieness friend.
What BULLSHIT ADVICE!! Yeah, TECHNICALLY, you COULD win the POWERBALL as well, but are you going to? I wouldnt BET on it!! You could play the powerball for 100 lifetimes and NEVER get lucky!! Same thing approaching girls.. You are ONLY hurting yourself, between your sanity, your dignity, and you ego... It AINT gonna happen buddy.. Sorry..
Technically you could win the Powerball, but you have a 100% chance of failure if you never try.
Is pain of rejection and failure that bad? That you would rather completely eliminate the chance of success instead of face rejection?
I forget what tribe exactly follows this belief, but when they pray to the gods for strength, they expect hardship. They know only through hardship, suffering, and adversity, can they grow in strength. I follow that belief. When it feels like I am drowning, I'm merely learning how to swim.
Don't be afraid to jump in the water.
 

Cloudm16

Incels.Net Junior
Lordgoro said:
Cloudm16 said:
Hey man, listen. I joined this forum because I wanted to gain a perspective on inceldom. I’m sort of doing an impromptu psudo-academic study and I try to provide any relevant info on my way. To answer your question, apathy can be a sign of misuse of a controlled substance (if you use any drugs), or depression. However, I would consult a clinician before I’d self diagnose. As far as comments that say that it is unwise to walk up to a woman and ask them, just know that the chances are ALWAYS against you. The name of the game is this, EVERY man is told no more than yes. It is a game of emotional endurance. Just ask man. Just ask. The more you ask, the higher your statistical chances that you will receive a yes. It behooves ones self to have social skills, as they can help you make friends and form relationships. I wish you lots of luck on your way to happieness friend.
What BULLSHIT ADVICE!! Yeah, TECHNICALLY, you COULD win the POWERBALL as well, but are you going to? I wouldnt BET on it!! You could play the powerball for 100 lifetimes and NEVER get lucky!! Same thing approaching girls.. You are ONLY hurting yourself, between your sanity, your dignity, and you ego... It AINT gonna happen buddy.. Sorry..
Hey I’m sorry you find my advice devoid of any practical use, but here are some things to consider prior to writing me off.
-Comparing the lottery to the chances of a woman saying yes to a date is comparing apples to oranges. It’s just not accurate. There is too much of a disparity in probability.
-You are NOT only hurting yourself. You are developing a confidence that cannot be obtained any other way. The objective is that you get desensitized as all normies have.
-How else are you going to get a woman to go on a date with you in a non-transactional way?
-The first couple of times you get bummed about it. So what? Be strong and power through. I agree that it is tough man. It can be downright tough.
-I know that it can be really lonely without someone there. A feminine touch is a magical thing. Ones view of reality shifts and twists and turns and does all sorts of scary things when someone has no-one. I hope you find it too.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
Luckily Ive been beyond "dating" since my early 20s, and figured out its NOT WORTH TRYING!! As ive said before, a "date" means nothing as does NOT mean you will EVER get intimacy!! I switched to ESCORTS long ago, 100 percent I will get sex, intimacy, kissing, etc.. for at least an hour, sometimes overnight.. Period.. Why try if you KNOW for a fact you will FAIL? Life is too short for that crap! Ill take paying for 100 percent certainty ANYDAY!! Leave the "dating" for the younger guys who dont CARE about their own sanity or DIGNITY!! I however, DO!!
 

Cloudm16

Incels.Net Junior
Lordgoro said:
Luckily Ive been beyond "dating" since my early 20s, and figured out its NOT WORTH TRYING!! As ive said before, a "date" means nothing as does NOT mean you will EVER get intimacy!! I switched to ESCORTS long ago, 100 percent I will get sex, intimacy, kissing, etc.. for at least an hour, sometimes overnight.. Period.. Why try if you KNOW for a fact you will FAIL? Life is too short for that crap! Ill take paying for 100 percent certainty ANYDAY!! Leave the "dating" for the younger guys who dont CARE about their own sanity or DIGNITY!! I however, DO!!
Well power to you man. I hope it brings you joy. I’m just saying that valuable and non-expedient goals require some uncertainty and difficulty but it is that much sweeter when you can watch goodfellas with a woman in your arms.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
probably... I wouldnt know.. And no true Incels will EVER know.. thats WHY we are incels.. Women do NOT WANT to be BOTHERED!! Unless its from a chad... OR a white trash low class type of guy...
A few years ago I was on a bus, and saw a VERY cute mixed girl in her early 30s, she noticed me looking at her, and put on an INSTANT look of DISGUST, and turned her head away..By the way, I DRESS with perfect class and elegance.. with PERFECT smooth face and hygiene.. About 5 mins later this young guy wearing baggy pants, oversized obnoxious shirt, hat turned backwards, facial stubble, very LOW CLASS came right up to her, started chatting, and by the time we all got off the bus she was giving him her number!! THis world is FUCKED!!!
 

Cloudm16

Incels.Net Junior
Lordgoro said:
probably... I wouldnt know.. And no true Incels will EVER know.. thats WHY we are incels.. Women do NOT WANT to be BOTHERED!! Unless its from a chad... OR a white trash low class type of guy...
A few years ago I was on a bus, and saw a VERY cute mixed girl in her early 30s, she noticed me looking at her, and put on an INSTANT look of DISGUST, and turned her head away..By the way, I DRESS with perfect class and elegance.. with PERFECT smooth face and hygiene.. About 5 mins later this young guy wearing baggy pants, oversized obnoxious shirt, hat turned backwards, facial stubble, very LOW CLASS came right up to her, started chatting, and by the time we all got off the bus she was giving him her number!! THis world is FUCKED!!!
How can you assume she was disgusted? I’m sure if you went up and asked, you might gain some insight on what she is thinking. Also, what exactly were you wearing? I think you have a rather unique way to catigorize things: Low iq, high iq, high class, low class, etc. They obviously speak for themselves but I’d be interested to get a glimpse at what is, in your eyes, a “high class” outfit.
 

Cloudm16

Incels.Net Junior
Lordgoro said:
I usually wear a black dress shirt with a collar, black dress pants, black high top sneakers, and a long leather black jacket just like Roland from the Dark Tower..... Pic attached.Idris-Elba-The-Dark-Tower-Roland-Deschain-Leather-Coat.jpg.. With a smooth shaved face and long black well kept hair... And yes, I KNOW a look of DISGUST from women, I get them OFTEN..
Maybe it was a look of surprise as not many people dress as formal as that on public transport. There is an art in blending in. However, dress how you want. Just ditch the jacket if it gets too hot. You don’t want to be uncomfortable. Thanks for sharing it looks pretty slick on Idris Elba
 
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