Online dating

Trey

Incels.Net Junior
tremor said:
Doomer92 said:
And by the way, I had no matches
I couldn't infer that from your previous messages because I only have a vague idea of how dating apps work insofar as I haven't used any.

Well, landwhales wouldn't even count at all maybe just decade ago. Now they'd expect a man to be grateful for this creature's attention though.
All I got was one landwhale. She even ended up deleting my phone number. While the one other said she was a porn star cam girl (wasn't fat) , but I got unmatched or she deleted tinder... probably the first.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
Isol8 said:
i get matches on tinder because I"m not bad looking, but the conversation and vagina goes dry very quickly because I'm extremely boring and believe I am possibly showing early signs of dementia ontop of my already sever depression and anxiety. I don't even bother with it much anymore, the last date i went on was so terrible i haven't even considered going out on another since. within minutes she was ready to leave, and I was also, it was excruciating. was beyond boring, id never felt so uncomfortable in my life, like i was being squeezed through the opening of a tube of toothpaste. trapped in a lampshade, I would have been more satisfied to have stared at her silently and have her run from the restaurant screaming, or step slowing away from the table, walking backwards towards the front door, unwilling to turn her back to me while exiting for fear in the presence of the thing that should not be. I could have stood up and slowly followed her, never blinking or taking my eyes off of her, quietly asking "why don't you like me?" That would have been enjoyable. I have an extremely unattractive friend who's a girl, she's stupid, ugly, fat and boring. She's my only option, I might marry her as I'm 41 years old and declining rapidly.
Yep there is a double standard. Women expect males to carry the date and be the lively jesters making it entertaining. Never do they look in the mirror or self reflect of them putting zero effort into the relationship of making it happen. Instead they will gossip afterward about how "weird and creepy" or how "boring" that guy was. When they were equally as weird, creepy, boring and awkward as the guy is. But since they have boobs get a free pass.
 

Isol8

Incels.Net Novice
I would love to be a chad and charm the waitress on a date such as this with a stuck up cunt. That’s what a chad does on a date. He flirts aggressively with the waitress and gets the waitress to want to fuck him in front of the date, he doesn’t bother to entertain her, he gets her jealous of other proximal females, and holds text conversations with other ready vaginas during the date. His goal is not to entertain her or make her happy, his goal is to make her feel insignificant unimportant and insecure. In the end they each give him the sex. And the girls for some reason secretly like the triangle. Women can not resist this dynamic, a hot woman would jeapordize family job and marriage to join in the triangle. Couldn’t say no if she wanted to.
 

ortharzeal

EteRnal Evil.
Isol8 said:
I would love to be a chad and charm the waitress on a date such as this with a stuck up cunt. That’s what a chad does on a date. He flirts aggressively with the waitress and gets the waitress to want to fuck him in front of the date, he doesn’t bother to entertain her, he gets her jealous of other proximal females, and holds text conversations with other ready vaginas during the date. His goal is not to entertain her or make her happy, his goal is to make her feel insignificant unimportant and insecure. In the end they each give him the sex. And the girls for some reason secretly like the triangle. Women can not resist this dynamic, a hot woman would jeapordize family job and marriage to join in the triangle. Couldn’t say no if she wanted to.
Everyone wants to be Chad, even women. Men treated the enforced monogamy they had established as a burden because they forgot how it was designed and what for. They wanted to be Chad, to pump and dump, and saw this societal construct as an obstacle. So, it has been dismantled and here we are.

From stories on the web, only women and Chad benefit from open relationships and hookup culture of today, because guess what? There weren't social constraints only on being Chad, but nobody cared about the biology. Now we have SJWs spitting on it with their "more than two genders" and "homosexuality genes".
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
Isol8 said:
I would love to be a chad and charm the waitress on a date such as this with a stuck up cunt. That’s what a chad does on a date. He flirts aggressively with the waitress and gets the waitress to want to fuck him in front of the date, he doesn’t bother to entertain her, he gets her jealous of other proximal females, and holds text conversations with other ready vaginas during the date. His goal is not to entertain her or make her happy, his goal is to make her feel insignificant unimportant and insecure. In the end they each give him the sex. And the girls for some reason secretly like the triangle. Women can not resist this dynamic, a hot woman would jeapordize family job and marriage to join in the triangle. Couldn’t say no if she wanted to.

The majority of women are narcissists, narcissists need power and validation. When chad display's narcissistic behaviors and making them feel low validation and low power, it triggers their narcissism and the need to maintain power over chad. If chad flirts with another woman it makes her feel jealous and the need to have Chad for herself. Women are not motivated by love for Chad. They do not love Chad...they simply love the power he has and they also want to keep other girls down.

Obviously...people in love have similar tendencies and get jealous when people cheat. However there are subtle differences. People in love do not remain calm and casual when their partner is acting disloyal. Also, seeing their partner cheat does not turn them on...it usually makes them sick to their stomach. With weman and chad's, its not love. When chad cheats on them they do not get mad. In fact they get turned on. They do not love Chad, they just view him as a sexual object. When they see Chad fucking other women, it turns them on because usually those women are hot, which makes them feel more hot and validated as a hot girl.

This is the same reason women date CEOs. They don't love CEOs. They just want the power and influence the CEO has.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
tremor said:
Now we have SJWs spitting on it with their "more than two genders" and "homosexuality genes".
Off topic but I do think there are gay genes. But I think a lot of homosexuals were born straight but either traumatized as children, or were incel too long that they turned gay. But that some gays were just straight up born gay.

The problem I have with SJWs is they seem to only care about gays and ignore the bigger incel picture. I don't get how gay bathhouses are celebrated by society, but if an incel just wants some honest pussy its shamed and scorned by everyone and they are told not to lust. Its the same metaphor as modern music. Garbage pop and rap music is praised and celebrated. And high quality romantic music is viewed as autist and taboo. Its a metaphor of the Inversion. You are not allowed to love the best of feminine things...can't celebrate feminine music or feminine women. Can't allowed to love the best of masculine things such as monster trucks and guns. Instead you are forced to like the worst of masculine things...bathhouses and rap music. It's a Hellscape inversion dystopia.
 

ortharzeal

EteRnal Evil.
lordoftheincels said:
Off topic but I do think there are gay genes. But I think a lot of homosexuals were born straight but either traumatized as children, or were incel too long that they turned gay. But that some gays were just straight up born gay.
Maybe there is some genetic stuff which makes one more likely to get involved in this kind of relationship, but I think it can't happen without any external impulse.
lordoftheincels said:
The problem I have with SJWs is they seem to only care about gays and ignore the bigger incel picture. I don't get how gay bathhouses are celebrated by society, but if an incel just wants some honest pussy its shamed and scorned by everyone and they are told not to lust. Its the same metaphor as modern music. Garbage pop and rap music is praised and celebrated. And high quality romantic music is viewed as autist and taboo. Its a metaphor of the Inversion. You are not allowed to love the best of feminine things...can't celebrate feminine music or feminine women. Can't allowed to love the best of masculine things such as monster trucks and guns. Instead you are forced to like the worst of masculine things...bathhouses and rap music. It's a Hellscape inversion dystopia.
Same here, I don't understand the motivation. It's like every sub-Chad is expected to ask only right questions, give only right answers, have no actually private property, no individual preferences and no sexual interest in fertile women. Should, however, readily and gladly provide for a post-wall female, even though he is already doing that because almost half of his wages are taken by the government and given to single mothers. It is indeed a dystopian vision, and it seems we're almost there.
 

frecklearms72

Incels.Net Novice
I rather not try online dating, or even dating at all because I don't want to be put down or let down by a woman all because I'm not good looking. I had enough of that from when I was growing up
 
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