"Oh just be more positive"

WelcomeToMyDNA

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It's the shittiest advice ever. Being positive does absolutely nothing. Why the fuck do people always say "be positive" or "try to stay positive dude!"?
 

reg509

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They're bluepilled normies, NPCs. The people in-between Chad and Incels on the scale of attractiveness. They were born either conventionally attractive enough to be subchad, or just plain and average but still not genetically cursed like us. People born extroverts who can make friends of both sexes as naturally as breathing.
Living comfortably as part of the collective herd in the matrix of society they've never had much need to really use their brains, especially not to think outside the norm and grasp the bigger picture, to see the truth that life is shitty and unfair for most, aka, the blackpill.
 

tremor

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
Why the fuck do people always say "be positive" or "try to stay positive dude!"?
Our le toxicity is poisoning their perfect world.
 

bcroger2

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I tried asking a cream face, redneck,inbred bitch out and she said no. Talked to a 6.25 and that delusional bitch kept bringing up her boyfriend like it was an 8. Talked to a chubby girl and she never talked back. That was only in the last year, not even including the other 3 years.

Made a Tinder account and got some matches. They were almost all whales (obese, not just overweight) a self-described tranny freak, an ugly ghetto black bitch(not even a normal looking black bitch) and a fake account. No messages either so I don't even know if those fat , glutinous, hideous, creatures would even bother to reply anyways.

Whenever I try to dress nicely or comb my hair or whatever, the only person who notices is my ugly, creepy, female incel, 3.5/10 sister(who keeps complementing me) and my mom.

No point in being "positive" when all you get are clinically obese freaks and rejections.
 

albie

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
It's the shittiest advice ever. Being positive does absolutely nothing. Why the fuck do people always say "be positive" or "try to stay positive dude!"?
Translation: Oh take your incel problems somewhere else and stop trying to make me sorry for being sexually active.
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

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Xero1101 said:
Worked for this guy.

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Maybe he has money. Or some type of power. Plus, he isn't that ugly. When you're ugly, you might as well just give up finding a girlfriend entirely because it'll never happen in this lifetime. See, I'm ugly, and knowing this, I have given up entirely. I just have to find happiness in other places in life (materialistic things, music, video games, etc)...basically I have to cope until death.
 

lordoftheincels

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I've complained to friends and acquantancies and like, blue pill robots they just say be more positive. Half my social frustration isn't just sexual frustration, half of the reason I'm so angry all the time is because I feel like I'm living in a world surrounded by robots. It always grinds my gears when incels call other incels subhuman, when many incels are some of the most human people there are.
 

kaumak

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I hate when they say "You're putting pusѕy on a pedestal. It' not that great. You're gonna be disappointed" It's not just about pusѕy you mong. It's about love. The emotional connection. It's that I wanna be accepted. I wanna feel like I'm a human like everyone else and not a horrific freak creature. I want someone to tell me that they love me and to cuddle with me.
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

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kaumak said:
I hate when they say "You're putting pusѕy on a pedestal. It' not that great. You're gonna be disappointed" It's not just about pusѕy you mong. It's about love. The emotional connection. It's that I wanna be accepted. I wanna feel like I'm a human like everyone else and not a horrific freak creature. I want someone to tell me that they love me and to cuddle with me.
I know what you mean. Acceptance and feeling loved is my goal as well. It's why I hate when people say, "oh just go get an escort or hooker". FUCK THAT!!! I don't want to have to pay for sex. I want the girl to be naturally attracted to me and want me. I don't want sex just for the sake of fuсking.
 

lordoftheincels

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
kaumak said:
I hate when they say "You're putting pusѕy on a pedestal. It' not that great. You're gonna be disappointed" It's not just about pusѕy you mong. It's about love. The emotional connection. It's that I wanna be accepted. I wanna feel like I'm a human like everyone else and not a horrific freak creature. I want someone to tell me that they love me and to cuddle with me.
I know what you mean. Acceptance and feeling loved is my goal as well. It's why I hate when people say, "oh just go get an escort or hooker". FUCK THAT!!! I don't want to have to pay for sex. I want the girl to be naturally attracted to me and want me. I don't want sex just for the sake of fuсking.
I lost the ability to love after being incel for too many miserable years. Just want a quick fuck to alleviate the frustration. It would be nice to be loved, but it won't happen till I can somehow become physically beautiful.


Also, incels aren't allowed to win debates. If they tell a normie they can't love, normies then tell them "Got to love to be loved." Then if they say the opposite, that they love a girl but she don't love them, normies say "Unrequited love is bad, can't love someone till they love you." Blue pilled normies never allow incels to win an argument.
 

Lordgoro

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lordoftheincels said:
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
kaumak said:
I hate when they say "You're putting pusѕy on a pedestal. It' not that great. You're gonna be disappointed" It's not just about pusѕy you mong. It's about love. The emotional connection. It's that I wanna be accepted. I wanna feel like I'm a human like everyone else and not a horrific freak creature. I want someone to tell me that they love me and to cuddle with me.
I know what you mean. Acceptance and feeling loved is my goal as well. It's why I hate when people say, "oh just go get an escort or hooker". FUCK THAT!!! I don't want to have to pay for sex. I want the girl to be naturally attracted to me and want me. I don't want sex just for the sake of fuсking.
I lost the ability to love after being incel for too many miserable years. Just want a quick fuck to alleviate the frustration. It would be nice to be loved, but it won't happen till I can somehow become physically beautiful.


Also, incels aren't allowed to win debates. If they tell a normie they can't love, normies then tell them "Got to love to be loved." Then if they say the opposite, that they love a girl but she don't love them, normies say "Unrequited love is bad, can't love someone till they love you." Blue pilled normies never allow incels to win an argument.
Of course, cause we're considered the "bad guys", and if women have no interest in us, its always "our fault", in their minds.. SO if incels somehow won an argument, it could bring into question the entire VALIDITY of ALL their "normie beliefs", and they cant have that, no matter what!
 

TheUnworthy

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That's probably the worst advise a normie can tell you, I agree with you completely.
It's not only dismissive but also is completely insensible and, actually, it shows that person doesn't care about you or your problems.
I have a Chad friend, he told me this phrase only once and never told me about it ever again. Why? Because even though he's a Chad, even though he can't understand my struggle, he still (somehow) care for me.
I'm no one to tell any of you this, but evaluate your friends after they say something like this to you.
Seriously, they don't care about you.
 

lordoftheincels

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TheUnworthy said:
That's probably the worst advise a normie can tell you, I agree with you completely.
It's not only dismissive but also is completely insensible and, actually, it shows that person doesn't care about you or your problems.
I have a Chad friend, he told me this phrase only once and never told me about it ever again. Why? Because even though he's a Chad, even though he can't understand my struggle, he still (somehow) care for me.
I'm no one to tell any of you this, but evaluate your friends after they say something like this to you.
Seriously, they don't care about you.
Most of my friends say it to me so I guess they aren't real friends. I do think I have a couple real friends because when I whine about my incel issues, they say along the lines of: "Yeah it sucks hope you find someone soon." That's a lot more empathetic than "just be positive".
 

Oldgeezer

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The lines "You need to be more positive" and the ever favorite "Don't try so hard it happens when you are not looking" is not advice. It is just them saying they are tired of hearing about it, shut up and go away. They don't mean it as actual advice.
 
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