Is it Homophobic?

Jorami

Femoid
Right now I’m sharing a room with one of my best friends for summer vacation and it was going great. She recently became really close to me and we started sharing dark and personal secrets. We talked about all kinds of things, boys, religion, race, culture, sex..


Eventually, she said, "Im going to tell you a HUGE secret, so dont tell ANYBODY, not mom/dad, my sisters, nobody." Of course a told her I promised not to tell. She took a deep breath and said-

"Im gay."

This took me by surprise because she is a devoted Christian and we got in a lot of debates about homosexuality. SHE was the one who believed homosexuality was unnatural while I was the one defending gays. The fact that she was apart of team lesbian was a shocker. Now I can see the signs, she wears alot of male clothing. (Im surprised I didn't pick up the signs)

I told her, "Its ok man, Im cool with gays. I wont tell anyone."
But shortly after that, I started to feel a little... uncomfortable.

I remember times where she would get real close to my face when we talked and other times she would stare at my side of the room, and sometimes stare at me. We used to hug often but now I wonder if she had other intentions.. She also told me she wanted to be the 'dominant' in the relationship, I view myself as a sub.. Once, she asked me if I have ever drawn lesbian art, and I said, "No, Its all straight." Another thing she said, "Im VERY attracted to girls that make me laugh"... .. I make her laugh all the time.
She admitted to me that when girls undressed infront of her in the locker rooms, she had to force herself to look away. I undressed infront of her ALL THE TIME. I didnt know!

Earlier today I was sleeping in my bed, when all of a sudden I woke up to her rubbing my arm. I flinched and said "Whoa, what are you doing??"
And she told me something about fixing the closet door. I was legit scared when I woke up, I thought she was trying something. Now I feel really bad because I got frightened by my best friend. I know its a negative stereotype that gays want to fuck everybody, but I just cant help myself! I feel involuntary nervousness. Is it homophobia?
 

Jorami

Femoid
Uhhh, i read it all, and i'm trying not to make another comment about your purple fish. So with that being said, no it's not homophobic. Your fears are REAL Jorami. Please feed your purple fish.
If it's true, that would be pretty bad because I treated her like my sister. Now everything could have a double meaning.

I do need to feed my fish tbh
 

Tupolev

Спецназ
Joker said:
Uhhh, i read it all, and i'm trying not to make another comment about your purple fish. So with that being said, no it's not homophobic. Your fears are REAL Jorami. Please feed your purple fish.
If it's true, that would be pretty bad because I treated her like my sister. Now everything could have a double meaning.

I do need to feed my fish tbh
Okay yes, feed Mr. Purple or else he will not like you anymore Jorami.

But hey, i'm not sure why this lesbo stuff is so serious, most girls are closet lesbian in my opinion. That's why recent statistics from dating websites show that women only liked 4.5 % of male profiles. And i didn't type that wrong, no no Jorami, i did NOT mean to type 45 ... no ... 4.5 % ...

Now if THAT doesn't confirm my belief, then nothing will.
 

Sasaki

Von
Jorami said:
Joker said:
Uhhh, i read it all, and i'm trying not to make another comment about your purple fish. So with that being said, no it's not homophobic. Your fears are REAL Jorami. Please feed your purple fish.
If it's true, that would be pretty bad because I treated her like my sister. Now everything could have a double meaning.

I do need to feed my fish tbh
Okay yes, feed Mr. Purple or else he will not like you anymore Jorami.

But hey, i'm not sure why this lesbo stuff is so serious, most girls are closet lesbian in my opinion. That's why recent statistics from dating websites show that women only liked 4.5 % of male profiles. And i didn't type that wrong, no no Jorami, i did NOT mean to type 45 ... no ... 4.5 % ...

Now if THAT doesn't confirm my belief, then nothing will.
its so over for 95.5% of males, man.
 

sheidgeda

Femoid
You'll get used to her being gay. Just tell her you're not interested in having sex with her and she'll either understand or probably not be your friend anymore.
 

Tupolev

Спецназ
Joker said:
So with that being said, no it's not homophobic. Your fears are REAL Jorami.
This
also a lot of closet gays tend to hide it by saying they're anti gay
I think she'll try something else soon btw so watch out for that
Exactly, one night you'll wake up to her rubbing your arm, the next you'll wake up wondering why the bottle of sleeping medication is empty, why you're so drowsy, and why your maxi-pad seems to be in a different position than where you left it.

I mean i like to put a theatrical spin on things, but you get the point.
 

GameDevCel

Heros in æternum vive:
Right now I’m sharing a room with one of my best friends for summer vacation and it was going great. She recently became really close to me and we started sharing dark and personal secrets. We talked about all kinds of things, boys, religion, race, culture, sex..


Eventually, she said, "Im going to tell you a HUGE secret, so dont tell ANYBODY, not mom/dad, my sisters, nobody." Of course a told her I promised not to tell. She took a deep breath and said-

"Im gay."

This took me by surprise because she is a devoted Christian and we got in a lot of debates about homosexuality. SHE was the one who believed homosexuality was unnatural while I was the one defending gays. The fact that she was apart of team lesbian was a shocker. Now I can see the signs, she wears alot of male clothing. (Im surprised I didn't pick up the signs)

I told her, "Its ok man, Im cool with gays. I wont tell anyone."
But shortly after that, I started to feel a little... uncomfortable.

I remember times where she would get real close to my face when we talked and other times she would stare at my side of the room, and sometimes stare at me. We used to hug often but now I wonder if she had other intentions.. She also told me she wanted to be the 'dominant' in the relationship, I view myself as a sub.. Once, she asked me if I have ever drawn lesbian art, and I said, "No, Its all straight." Another thing she said, "Im VERY attracted to girls that make me laugh"... .. I make her laugh all the time.
She admitted to me that when girls undressed infront of her in the locker rooms, she had to force herself to look away. I undressed infront of her ALL THE TIME. I didnt know!

Earlier today I was sleeping in my bed, when all of a sudden I woke up to her rubbing my arm. I flinched and said "Whoa, what are you doing??"
And she told me something about fixing the closet door. I was legit scared when I woke up, I thought she was trying something. Now I feel really bad because I got frightened by my best friend. I know its a negative stereotype that gays want to fuck everybody, but I just cant help myself! I feel involuntary nervousness. Is it homophobia?
i can't tell if you are living with a potential rаpist, or if you are just paranoid
 

kalashnikov

Incels.Net Master
Joker said:
Jorami said:
If it's true, that would be pretty bad because I treated her like my sister. Now everything could have a double meaning.

I do need to feed my fish tbh
Okay yes, feed Mr. Purple or else he will not like you anymore Jorami.

But hey, i'm not sure why this lesbo stuff is so serious, most girls are closet lesbian in my opinion. That's why recent statistics from dating websites show that women only liked 4.5 % of male profiles. And i didn't type that wrong, no no Jorami, i did NOT mean to type 45 ... no ... 4.5 % ...

Now if THAT doesn't confirm my belief, then nothing will.
its so over for 95.5% of males, man.
It’s over for many men, man.
 

Sasaki

Von
Ritalinbro said:
Joker said:
Okay yes, feed Mr. Purple or else he will not like you anymore Jorami.

But hey, i'm not sure why this lesbo stuff is so serious, most girls are closet lesbian in my opinion. That's why recent statistics from dating websites show that women only liked 4.5 % of male profiles. And i didn't type that wrong, no no Jorami, i did NOT mean to type 45 ... no ... 4.5 % ...

Now if THAT doesn't confirm my belief, then nothing will.
its so over for 95.5% of males, man.
It’s over for many men, man.
So true, man.
This society is a bitch.
 

Jorami

Femoid
Jorami said:
Joker said:
Uhhh, i read it all, and i'm trying not to make another comment about your purple fish. So with that being said, no it's not homophobic. Your fears are REAL Jorami. Please feed your purple fish.
If it's true, that would be pretty bad because I treated her like my sister. Now everything could have a double meaning.

I do need to feed my fish tbh
Okay yes, feed Mr. Purple or else he will not like you anymore Jorami.

But hey, i'm not sure why this lesbo stuff is so serious, most girls are closet lesbian in my opinion. That's why recent statistics from dating websites show that women only liked 4.5 % of male profiles. And i didn't type that wrong, no no Jorami, i did NOT mean to type 45 ... no ... 4.5 % ...

Now if THAT doesn't confirm my belief, then nothing will.
Wait, that cant be right... that would mean 95% of girls are gay or very picky.
 

Kolibri

Destroyer of Soy
logan said:
jfl why would that be homophobic
I thought being uncomfortable sleeping near my lesbian friend was wrong of me.
If you don't swing that way, you don't swing that way. Nothing homophobic about it unless you try to kill her for coming out to you or something. Just not wanting a gay person to give you the bad touch isn't homophobic.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
Right now I’m sharing a room with one of my best friends for summer vacation and it was going great. She recently became really close to me and we started sharing dark and personal secrets. We talked about all kinds of things, boys, religion, race, culture, sex..


Eventually, she said, "Im going to tell you a HUGE secret, so dont tell ANYBODY, not mom/dad, my sisters, nobody." Of course a told her I promised not to tell. She took a deep breath and said-

"Im gay."

This took me by surprise because she is a devoted Christian and we got in a lot of debates about homosexuality. SHE was the one who believed homosexuality was unnatural while I was the one defending gays. The fact that she was apart of team lesbian was a shocker. Now I can see the signs, she wears alot of male clothing. (Im surprised I didn't pick up the signs)

I told her, "Its ok man, Im cool with gays. I wont tell anyone."
But shortly after that, I started to feel a little... uncomfortable.

I remember times where she would get real close to my face when we talked and other times she would stare at my side of the room, and sometimes stare at me. We used to hug often but now I wonder if she had other intentions.. She also told me she wanted to be the 'dominant' in the relationship, I view myself as a sub.. Once, she asked me if I have ever drawn lesbian art, and I said, "No, Its all straight." Another thing she said, "Im VERY attracted to girls that make me laugh"... .. I make her laugh all the time.
She admitted to me that when girls undressed infront of her in the locker rooms, she had to force herself to look away. I undressed infront of her ALL THE TIME. I didnt know!

Earlier today I was sleeping in my bed, when all of a sudden I woke up to her rubbing my arm. I flinched and said "Whoa, what are you doing??"
And she told me something about fixing the closet door. I was legit scared when I woke up, I thought she was trying something. Now I feel really bad because I got frightened by my best friend. I know its a negative stereotype that gays want to fuck everybody, but I just cant help myself! I feel involuntary nervousness. Is it homophobia?
That's hot. Upload me the porn of you two getting it on. Lesbians dont want me because my cock isnt big enough. I plan on getting cock enhancement pills to get a bigger dick. Once my dick is 10 inches I can't wait to have a threesome together.
 

WeirdoWitch

Incels.Net Novice
Even if she liked you that way,u can sorted this out.
I know this can be awkward.
I'm gay and I was hopelessness fall in love with my bestfriend.
Just talked about this and if she had feelings for you,better distance yourself,it's actually easier to accept that for her than.
Me and my best friend we have constantly phoned, texting all day and meet up were very inclusive.
So it was harder to accept that tbh.
 
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