Is anyone here completely friendless rn

HOTOTRABBIT124

Incels.Net Junior
I used to have plenty of friends in my early elementary school days,but once i came into 4th grade my two friends(both females) abandoned me because i was “annoying” and left me alone.I didn't have friends for the rest of the grade and ended up shy and awkward and would just play on the playground alone and look like a dumbass.During 5th grade i had completely forgot how to socialize and was awkward and almost had no friends that year.i just had one friend.it was this dude with special needs.he was easy to talk to because he was so simple due to his development issue(idk what exactly was wrong with him).after that i never had another friend due to the fact i forgot how to make them and have a fear of talking to people.i am now entering highschool and so far i have spent 3 years alone at school
 

darkforce1784

Incels.Net Regular
man I know what you are going through.. its real cruel when you are young..
How old are you?-just because you do not have a gf does not mean you will never have a gf... you are very young if you are in highschool.... have fun. play video games PS4, XBOX, travel, use meetup, I don't know if they allow under 18s... but there are so many things for you to do and make friends.... world is full of lonely people like us, you will find someone.. make conversations.. Do not start with girls, because you will only get ignored.. start with guys who are average.--not very popular. make them your friends.. talk to them
I am not sure if this forum is right for you... honestly
 

HOTOTRABBIT124

Incels.Net Junior
man I know what you are going through.. its real cruel when you are young..
How old are you?-just because you do not have a gf does not mean you will never have a gf... you are very young if you are in highschool.... have fun. play video games PS4, XBOX, travel, use meetup, I don't know if they allow under 18s... but there are so many things for you to do and make friends.... world is full of lonely people like us, you will find someone.. make conversations.. Do not start with girls, because you will only get ignored.. start with guys who are average.--not very popular. make them your friends.. talk to them
I am not sure if this forum is right for you... honestly
I am 14 and i know I probably shouldn’t be here you are right,i just relate with the people on here a lot.i do try to talk to even the most least popular weirdest dudes at school but they end up rejecting me,due to the fact i have a hard time expressing emotions when talking and am always uncomfortable and anxious and never get comfortable with people and end up failing.it happened so many times this year.people try to approach me and be my friend but i end up blowing it and it fails.i can never approach people first.i tried once this year and things got so awkward and uncomfortable fast.
 

JustTom

Incels.Net Junior
darkforce1784 said:
man I know what you are going through.. its real cruel when you are young..
How old are you?-just because you do not have a gf does not mean you will never have a gf... you are very young if you are in highschool.... have fun. play video games PS4, XBOX, travel, use meetup, I don't know if they allow under 18s... but there are so many things for you to do and make friends.... world is full of lonely people like us, you will find someone.. make conversations.. Do not start with girls, because you will only get ignored.. start with guys who are average.--not very popular. make them your friends.. talk to them
I am not sure if this forum is right for you... honestly
I am 14 and i know I probably shouldn’t be here you are right,i just relate with the people on here a lot.i do try to talk to even the most least popular weirdest dudes at school but they end up rejecting me,due to the fact i have a hard time expressing emotions when talking and am always uncomfortable and anxious and never get comfortable with people and end up failing.it happened so many times this year.people try to approach me and be my friend but i end up blowing it and it fails.i can never approach people first.i tried once this year and things got so awkward and uncomfortable fast.
If you’re only 14, there’s so much time ahead of you. You don’t need to be here. I understand that you can relate but this isn’t the place for a boy so young. It might get better for you. You just need to give it some time man.
 

darkforce1784

Incels.Net Regular
I hope you do watch porn and masturbate? If yes, do that more often.. It will help with stress.. and will make you feel better

I was way lonelier than you are...and I was very obese too.. now I am not... but that is not the point.. point is there are so many things to keep you busy and entertained and you can make friends very easily...
 

Fiesta Payasos

Doomed | Honkpill
You cant be completly alone at your age, it brokes your mind, you must have someone to talk about things. Youre so young man i hope you do well. Youre smart so youll probably avoid mistakes we made
 

JustTom

Incels.Net Junior
HOTOTRABBIT124 said:
darkforce1784 said:
man I know what you are going through.. its real cruel when you are young..
How old are you?-just because you do not have a gf does not mean you will never have a gf... you are very young if you are in highschool.... have fun. play video games PS4, XBOX, travel, use meetup, I don't know if they allow under 18s... but there are so many things for you to do and make friends.... world is full of lonely people like us, you will find someone.. make conversations.. Do not start with girls, because you will only get ignored.. start with guys who are average.--not very popular. make them your friends.. talk to them
I am not sure if this forum is right for you... honestly
I am 14 and i know I probably shouldn’t be here you are right,i just relate with the people on here a lot.i do try to talk to even the most least popular weirdest dudes at school but they end up rejecting me,due to the fact i have a hard time expressing emotions when talking and am always uncomfortable and anxious and never get comfortable with people and end up failing.it happened so many times this year.people try to approach me and be my friend but i end up blowing it and it fails.i can never approach people first.i tried once this year and things got so awkward and uncomfortable fast.
If you’re only 14, there’s so much time ahead of you. You don’t need to be here. I understand that you can relate but this isn’t the place for a boy so young. It might get better for you. You just need to give it some time man.
Boys change into men when their like 16 - 17 bro if you feel the same way then, come back dude. But you’re so young
 

Lord Zebra

Incels.Net Novice
If you’re only 14, there’s so much time ahead of you. You don’t need to be here. I understand that you can relate but this isn’t the place for a boy so young. It might get better for you. You just need to give it some time man.
Agreed. If only I could go back to 14 -D .
Some ideas:
- It's bad, but OK to have zero friends.
- Don't respect anyone that doesn't respect you, because it will bury your self-esteem long-time.
- Do NOT escape from reality through video games, try to do something that will benefit you in the long run, e.g. coding, you have many years ahead, so if you start now the learning curve will be much more pleasant.
- Do some sports for 3x2h a week. It didn't get me laid, but it changed my life from complete wreck to somewhat worth living. And that was around age 23 - at 14 the difference it can make is probably truly life-changing.

also:
- late twenties.
- zero friends (all went on to do better things)
- male relatives are cucks or dead or don't want to associate with me.
- female relatives . . . well can't trust females.
 
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HOTOTRABBIT124

Incels.Net Junior
You cant be completly alone at your age, it brokes your mind, you must have someone to talk about things. Youre so young man i hope you do well. Youre smart so youll probably avoid mistakes we made
Im trying to fix everything rn.im trying to solve it by myself but obviously its not working but for some reason i have a hard time asking my parents for help.i kinda trapped myself
 

Sasaki

Von
HOTOTRABBIT124 said:
darkforce1784 said:
man I know what you are going through.. its real cruel when you are young..
How old are you?-just because you do not have a gf does not mean you will never have a gf... you are very young if you are in highschool.... have fun. play video games PS4, XBOX, travel, use meetup, I don't know if they allow under 18s... but there are so many things for you to do and make friends.... world is full of lonely people like us, you will find someone.. make conversations.. Do not start with girls, because you will only get ignored.. start with guys who are average.--not very popular. make them your friends.. talk to them
I am not sure if this forum is right for you... honestly
I am 14 and i know I probably shouldn’t be here you are right,i just relate with the people on here a lot.i do try to talk to even the most least popular weirdest dudes at school but they end up rejecting me,due to the fact i have a hard time expressing emotions when talking and am always uncomfortable and anxious and never get comfortable with people and end up failing.it happened so many times this year.people try to approach me and be my friend but i end up blowing it and it fails.i can never approach people first.i tried once this year and things got so awkward and uncomfortable fast.
If you’re only 14, there’s so much time ahead of you. You don’t need to be here. I understand that you can relate but this isn’t the place for a boy so young. It might get better for you. You just need to give it some time man.
Cope, I'm 16. I already know It's over.
It's better he gets blackpilled at a young age anyway.
 

DisabledFace

Incels.Net Regular
Yes, nobody likes and wants me, almost entirely because of my comical appearance. I've been viciously bullied my whole life and then blamed as the reason for the bullying. I could tell many stories about other people's nastiness.
 

HOTOTRABBIT124

Incels.Net Junior
JustTom said:
If you’re only 14, there’s so much time ahead of you. You don’t need to be here. I understand that you can relate but this isn’t the place for a boy so young. It might get better for you. You just need to give it some time man.
Agreed. If only I could go back to 14 -D .
Some ideas:
- It's bad, but OK to have zero friends.
- Don't respect anyone that doesn't respect you, because it will bury your self-esteem long-time.
- Do NOT escape from reality through video games, try to do something that will benefit you in the long run, e.g. coding, you have many years ahead, so if you start now the learning curve will be much more pleasant.
- Do some sports for 3x2h a week. It didn't get me laid, but it changed my life from complete wreck to somewhat worth living. And that was around age 23 - at 14 the difference it can make is probably truly life-changing.

also:
- late twenties.
- zero friends (all went on to do better things)
- male relatives are cucks or dead or don't want to associate with me.
- female relatives . . . well can't trust females.
I do enjoy making music on GarageBand and making art.i do hope i can make something out of it
 

HOTOTRABBIT124

Incels.Net Junior
Yes, nobody likes and wants me, almost entirely because of my comical appearance. I've been viciously bullied my whole life and then blamed as the reason for the bullying. I could tell many stories about other people's nastiness.
Jeez sorry about that.i never been badly bullied but its mainly because everyone at my middle school thinks im gonna be school shooter,all because im quiet(i overhead a group talk about me looking like one and been called creepy by one girl i was forced with in a group project).it really hurts but its not that bad as what others go through
 

Chadlite69

Incels.Net Regular
Yes and not because I’m incel because I’m not it’s due to growing up and having my friends grow up move away start their own lives and families it’s just a part of life I guess
 

Fiesta Payasos

Doomed | Honkpill
Lord Zebra said:
JustTom said:
If you’re only 14, there’s so much time ahead of you. You don’t need to be here. I understand that you can relate but this isn’t the place for a boy so young. It might get better for you. You just need to give it some time man.
Agreed. If only I could go back to 14 -D .
Some ideas:
- It's bad, but OK to have zero friends.
- Don't respect anyone that doesn't respect you, because it will bury your self-esteem long-time.
- Do NOT escape from reality through video games, try to do something that will benefit you in the long run, e.g. coding, you have many years ahead, so if you start now the learning curve will be much more pleasant.
- Do some sports for 3x2h a week. It didn't get me laid, but it changed my life from complete wreck to somewhat worth living. And that was around age 23 - at 14 the difference it can make is probably truly life-changing.

also:
- late twenties.
- zero friends (all went on to do better things)
- male relatives are cucks or dead or don't want to associate with me.
- female relatives . . . well can't trust females.
I do enjoy making music on GarageBand and making art.i do hope i can make something out of it
If you like It go for it. About your parents you should tell if you feel depressed i never told It and It was worst at the end.
 

HOTOTRABBIT124

Incels.Net Junior
I hope you do watch Pοrn and masturbate? If yes, do that more often.. It will help with stress.. and will make you feel better

I was way lonelier than you are...and I was very obese too.. now I am not... but that is not the point.. point is there are so many things to keep you busy and entertained and you can make friends very easily...
I do watch porn a lot.i get a lot of stress from school work(and the bonus stress of my fear of people) the point of getting headaches everyday and it does help.i dont let it ruin the way i see reality though as i know its acting.(porn actors are so bad lol)
 
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