Im a female. hope it's ok to post on the bluepill forum. Ive looked up some forums on reddit to see what actual incels look like and 90% of the incelselfies are of attractive men. I think that maybe incels might just be too self critical and it's hurting their chances of finding love. Maybe try using the law of attraction. Using affirmations and truly believing that you're worthy and attractive and you will attract results. Regardless of looks, everyone deserves to not only love themselves but to be loved. Even if you feel stuck with the life you've been given, maybe try to lessen the pain of living by at least loving yourself. I know it's hard to just stop being depressed but what else can you do? I think you attract whatever you believe. I believe incels might have conformation bias. You might have been bullied or have low self esteem so you become jaded and feel doomed but I really believe you can turn it around by thinking positively and loving yourself and others. Im only saying this because the incels Ive seen look far from ugly. I hope this helps. Just try positivity. It won't hurt. Just love yourself and the world with no expectations and Im certain you'll get love in return. No one deserves to feel unlovable or ugly. Much love!