I need help guys

WelcomeToMyDNA

I am who I am and I can be no other
I don't know what to do with my life anymore. Thinking of just roping sometimes. The job I had (the one where I worked get my super hot coworker) was just a seasonal job. It was a baseball stadium. Now, I'm out of a job and at home just haunted by memories of the girl; just sitting and remembering her voice, face, body, scent, etc. I still have her on Instagram, but I don't wanna message her out of fear that she'll leave me on read again. It's weird, because in person she seemed flirty and kind to me, but on Instagram messages, she seems uninterested. Plus, the other day I uploaded an ugly picture of myself on Instagram and she didn't like it. It's the first pic of me on there that she didn't like. I felt like deleting after she didn't like it, but then she'll know I'm insecure. So what should I do about these taunting memories of her???? I'm homebound all day -- out of a job. I have all day to do nothing. I do have a gym membership, but I have no car to get there until my mom comes home from work later to drop me off there. Basically I'm stuck inside this hellish dimension that looks like a bedroom, taunted by hot, flashing images and memories of my coworker J.

What should I do to cope?
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
My personal advice, FAP until you get it out of your system.. Either with the sexiest pics you have of her, or the hottest possible porn that you love... Fap until the very THOUGHT of sex just tires you out, then involve yourself in something ELSE you love to do! My thing is video games and movies.. Im almost 50, and thats what works for me... I HAVE to fap 6 times a day just to stay sane..
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

I am who I am and I can be no other
Lordgoro said:
My personal advice, FAP until you get it out of your system.. Either with the sexiest pics you have of her, or the hottest possible pοrn that you love... Fap until the very THOUGHT of sex just tires you out, then involve yourself in something ELSE you love to do! My thing is video games and movies.. Im almost 50, and thats what works for me... I HAVE to fap 6 times a day just to stay sane..
But, as much as I want to have sex with her, I truly just like her and want to be around her. Of course I'd love to have sex with her, but the very thought of her in general just melts my heart. She does have verrrrrry revealing pics though. At one point in time she was about to send me solo videos of herself, but apparently she decided not to. Haven't tried asking though. If I ask and she says no, it'll ruin things between us forever.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
heres an idea, make a Fake chad profile(find a number of pics of the same chad to fake her out) and get chatting with her AS that chad on instragram, then see if you can get her to send vids and MORE pictures that way?
 

freakingloser427

Incels.Net Junior
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
I don't know what to do with my life anymore. Thinking of just roping sometimes. The job I had (the one where I worked get my super hot coworker) was just a seasonal job. It was a baseball stadium. Now, I'm out of a job and at home just haunted by memories of the girl; just sitting and remembering her voice, face, body, scent, etc. I still have her on Instagram, but I don't wanna message her out of fear that she'll leave me on read again. It's weird, because in person she seemed flirty and kind to me, but on Instagram messages, she seems uninterested. Plus, the other day I uploaded an ugly picture of myself on Instagram and she didn't like it. It's the first pic of me on there that she didn't like. I felt like deleting after she didn't like it, but then she'll know I'm insecure. So what should I do about these taunting memories of her???? I'm homebound all day -- out of a job. I have all day to do nothing. I do have a gym membership, but I have no car to get there until my mom comes home from work later to drop me off there. Basically I'm stuck inside this hellish dimension that looks like a bedroom, taunted by hot, flashing images and memories of my coworker J.

What should I do to cope?
A. Don’t kill yourself. Just don’t. suіcіde isn’t fun and the implications of surviving suіcіde can be absolute hell. I know it for a fact.
B. There are 2 ways of going about this. Either be terrible to her over Instagram until she leaves/blocks you or confront her by messaging. Overcome a fear and maybe you’ll get a companion because of it.
These are 2 things that popped into my head. There are other ways but these are things I’ve done. The first option just left me feeling terrible but the second option also worked once. Then it backfired terribly. But maybe it won’t for you.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
Yeah, suіcіde means chads and stacies WIN!!! Dont let them... Just find LITTLE ways to make their lives miserable if you can!! Take satisfaction in seeing stacy cry!
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
Lordgoro said:
Yeah, suіcіde means chads and stacies WIN!!! Dont let them... Just find LITTLE ways to make their lives miserable if you can!! Take satisfaction in seeing stacy cry!
I think we are so invisible on their radar that chads and stacies could give less than even 2 shits whether or not we live or commit suіcіde.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
Send her a nice message, if she leaves it on read, send another nice message, if its still on read, send a 3rd nice message....Follow the 3 strike rule. Make sure to space it out, so she doesn't say "I was busy or at work".

If after that, she is still on ignore....you have no choice but to respond in a hostile manner.
 

whiskeyinthejar97

Incels.Net Junior
lordoftheincels said:
Send her a nice message, if she leaves it on read, send another nice message, if its still on read, send a 3rd nice message....Follow the 3 strike rule. Make sure to space it out, so she doesn't say "I was busy or at work".

If after that, she is still on ignore....you have no choice but to respond in a hostile manner.
are you being facetious?
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
Send her a nice message, if she leaves it on read, send another nice message, if its still on read, send a 3rd nice message....Follow the 3 strike rule. Make sure to space it out, so she doesn't say "I was busy or at work".

If after that, she is still on ignore....you have no choice but to respond in a hostile manner.
are you being facetious?
No its called being strategic. If you just rage at her unprovoked she's going to use it as an opportunity to claim victim status and label you the aggressor.
 

whiskeyinthejar97

Incels.Net Junior
lordoftheincels said:
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
Send her a nice message, if she leaves it on read, send another nice message, if its still on read, send a 3rd nice message....Follow the 3 strike rule. Make sure to space it out, so she doesn't say "I was busy or at work".

If after that, she is still on ignore....you have no choice but to respond in a hostile manner.
are you being facetious?
No its called being strategic. If you just rage at her unprovoked she's going to use it as an opportunity to claim victim status and label you the aggressor.
do you know what chicks on snapchat and tinder do when they get multiple messages from subchads? they laugh with their friends about this guy that is "so obsessed with her" because they love the sound of their own voice and they especially love other stacys knowing how in demand they are. I say give these chicks radio silence after the first try.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
are you being facetious?
No its called being strategic. If you just rage at her unprovoked she's going to use it as an opportunity to claim victim status and label you the aggressor.
do you know what chicks on snapchat and tinder do when they get multiple messages from subchads? they laugh with their friends about this guy that is "so obsessed with her" because they love the sound of their own voice and they especially love other stacys knowing how in demand they are. I say give these chicks radio silence after the first try.
He can do radio silence if he wants. But if he plans on some kind of revenge he might be sorry when the fake news brigade portrays him as the irrational aggressor.
 

whiskeyinthejar97

Incels.Net Junior
lordoftheincels said:
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
No its called being strategic. If you just rage at her unprovoked she's going to use it as an opportunity to claim victim status and label you the aggressor.
do you know what chicks on snapchat and tinder do when they get multiple messages from subchads? they laugh with their friends about this guy that is "so obsessed with her" because they love the sound of their own voice and they especially love other stacys knowing how in demand they are. I say give these chicks radio silence after the first try.
He can do radio silence if he wants. But if he plans on some kind of revenge he might be sorry when the fake news brigade portrays him as the irrational aggressor.
he didn't ask for revenge advice, though. he asked for advice on how to cope and how to forget. Revenge is an inefficient way of forgetting.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
do you know what chicks on snapchat and tinder do when they get multiple messages from subchads? they laugh with their friends about this guy that is "so obsessed with her" because they love the sound of their own voice and they especially love other stacys knowing how in demand they are. I say give these chicks radio silence after the first try.
He can do radio silence if he wants. But if he plans on some kind of revenge he might be sorry when the fake news brigade portrays him as the irrational aggressor.
he didn't ask for revenge advice, though. he asked for advice on how to cope and how to forget. Revenge is an inefficient way of forgetting.
iT WAS IN RESPONSE TO ALL THE PEOPLE TELLING HIM TO DO REVENGE.

Now, begone with you. (Not banning you but you're starting to make me angry.)
 

whiskeyinthejar97

Incels.Net Junior
lordoftheincels said:
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
He can do radio silence if he wants. But if he plans on some kind of revenge he might be sorry when the fake news brigade portrays him as the irrational aggressor.
he didn't ask for revenge advice, though. he asked for advice on how to cope and how to forget. Revenge is an inefficient way of forgetting.
iT WAS IN RESPONSE TO ALL THE PEOPLE TELLING HIM TO DO REVENGE.

Now, begone with you. (Not banning you but you're starting to make me angry.)
No, in this comment you responded to the main thread (i.e. the guy who wanted to find a way to "cope"). You replied to lordgoro, who was talking about revenge. Two different comments. You are responsible for your own anger.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
lordoftheincels said:
whiskeyinthejar97 said:
he didn't ask for revenge advice, though. he asked for advice on how to cope and how to forget. Revenge is an inefficient way of forgetting.
iT WAS IN RESPONSE TO ALL THE PEOPLE TELLING HIM TO DO REVENGE.

Now, begone with you. (Not banning you but you're starting to make me angry.)
No, in this comment you responded to the main thread (i.e. the guy who wanted to find a way to "cope"). You replied to lordgoro, who was talking about revenge. Two different comments. You are responsible for your own anger.
Wtf. Go back and read the thread because you aren't making any sense.
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

I am who I am and I can be no other
thanks, all of you. In most cases I would try to get revenge, but this chick is actually my friend and we got along so well. Even if she does think I'm ugly, at least she made an effort to talk to me, she hugged me, she visited my area of work even when she was elsewhere (ultimately she got demoted from her position at the other bar stand because she kept visiting my stand to talk to me and my other coworker). So I wouldn't wanna do anything to hurt her. In most cases I would try to get revenge, but genuinely like her. Maybe in the future (if she doesn't block me soon) I'll try to hang out just to get a feeling of what's it's like to have a girlfriend. But, first I need to know how to drive....and get a job....and she might still say no. I don't know. She confuses the shit out of me. Can't tell whether she likes me because my personality or looks. I FUCKING DOUBT it's my looks because I'm ugly as shit even to landwhales. Why would a 10 like her think I'm physically attractive? But, my personality is shit too, so I don't see what she sees in me. I wish I could ask her.
 
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