I hate how I look.

albie

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You sure look young. I recall an article about Ralph Macchio(KARATE KID) and how his face never really developed beyond a teenager look. It screwed him up. At least you may age sometime. And you aren't ugly. Go down fighting.

He looks fine now. Poor Karate Kid.
 

thailandfantasies

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Dudes wrong about haircut effecting age and attractiveness.

OP you do need to change your hair style. It may not be the golden ticket to the opposite sex but it at least defines you in a better light to the females you are trying to attract.
 
general advice:

1. get a well-shaped haircut with the (sides cut close-ish and the top 1-3 inches).
2. when you pick out clothes, stick to neutrals and blues/greens. They are easy to match and look good on gingers and look more mature. Make sure they fit well but aren't too tight.
3. LIFT. WEIGHTS. EVERY. DAY. This is a big one. I can't see much of your body, but if you are being mistaken for a kid, then this likely a big part of it. You will feel better, too.

Picture advice:
1. Don't do that squinting thing in photos if you can help it. Chicks do that because they think it makes them look cute and youthful. Soft smile!
2. don't take photos from up above. This is another thing chicks do to make themselves look smaller and cuter. Don't be a douche and take a photo from your lap, but lower the camera to eye level or slightly below.

Also, you have really straight teeth and good skin.
 

lordoftheincels

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It's over for incels in America and I doubt your advice will help any, but the OP is welcome to try if he wants, after all he has nothing to lose.
 

bcroger2

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tremor said:
Ben said:
If he manages not to get fat and has a naturally good ass (round not flat or flabby) and if he has naturally broad shoulder shape, be could work out and become a chad in like 2-3 years ;) ;) Face don't mean much when it comes to Chad classification right? he might never have that angular chiselled face but if he's got a muscular body all over and he's not very very short he'll still be classed as Chad no?
Fake news, face is the most important thing about Chad. You can't become Chad, this ѕhit is inherent. No gym for your face. Overweight Chad will still mog gymmaxed incel.

Even height is less important. At least it doesn't save me. Manlets with Chad faces are successful with females and I'm an incel. Idk, you need to really be Farquadmaxed for height to matter.



As for the "angular" thing, I think it's a bit of a meme and in real life female preferences for faces are more complicated and various.

So, I believe it's more reliable to define Chad on the basis of female attention he got in the past and gets now. If there were lots of it in the past and it's the same now, then it's Chad. A man can't statusmax and moneymax early in life without looks.

What some incels do by looking into universal Chad features via Tinder experiments and other indeed helps to reasonably approximate this ѕhit tbh, like Chad is popular, sub-Chad isn't, but on rare occasions what was supposed to be incel-tier gets a lot of matches. I don't do this research and therefore know little, just don't feel like it, even stalking whamanz online is more interesting and productive IMO tbh tbh tbh.
The only was to stop being an incel for me and the vast majority of incels is to
1.Realistically, just about anyone can get laid. Go with an obese or very ugly person. 40% of American women are obese or near obese, so it should surprise no one that the bottom 40% of men would have to go with these vile, hideous and ugly creatures. Almost anyone can get laid, but some people are forced to go with obese, black ladies who can barely carry the weight of their own asses, let alone wipe it. I noticed that many obese Hispanic ladies (I live in Texas) are attracted to me. I will never go with these, vile, ugly, filthy,hideous creatures. I would much rather be a virgin. I could only imagine how badly these animals must smell naked.

2. Become rich, like $150,000+. This may be the only thing harder than actually fuсking an obese whale-like creature (no offense to whales.) Nowadays the only way to get that kind of money is to become a dentist, experienced lawyer,nurse anthologist or doctor. Most business people with business degrees are cucks for corporations who barely make over 60K(statistically speaking)
 

Justtryingtohelp

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Honestly, if you workout you’ll probably fill out a bit more and maybe could kick your testosterone into gear. Personally, I’d trim your hair up just because it looks like you don’t care as much if you let it get long but that’s just a preference thinf
 
Imo the best way to look more masculine is to work out (properly) it just takes time for good results, short term just cut your hair long hair is generally a feminine trait, also just fill the stereotype and have masculine interests even if not genuine
 

Lordgoro

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ToxicMasculinity said:
Imo the best way to look more masculine is to work out (properly) it just takes time for good results, short term just cut your hair long hair is generally a feminine trait, also just fill the stereotype and have masculine interests even if not genuine
I find that Insulting "bro".. My LONG hair is one of my DEFINING traits... And im as Masculine as it GETS!! Personally I LOVE how i look, my problem is simply that women DONT, and want nothing to do with me, either sexually OR personally.. But I LOVE myself.. :cool:
 
Lordgoro said:
ToxicMasculinity said:
Imo the best way to look more masculine is to work out (properly) it just takes time for good results, short term just cut your hair long hair is generally a feminine trait, also just fill the stereotype and have masculine interests even if not genuine
I find that Insulting "bro".. My LONG hair is one of my DEFINING traits... And im as Masculine as it GETS!! Personally I LOVE how i look, my problem is simply that women DONT, and want nothing to do with me, either sexually OR personally.. But I LOVE myself.. :cool:
Didn't mean to insult, im glad you love yourself and frankly envy that but girls are biologically attracted to masculinity and so if they aren't attracted to you then your clearly not masculine enough and can work on it more
 

Lordgoro

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Hehe, since my life is only about myself, and im the one that has to LIVE it, and I love my looks, I CERTAINLY would ALWAYS be TRUE to myself! Otherwise whats the point of existing? If women dont like my looks, I really couldnt give a ѕhit less, not my problem at this point.. At 48, Im "retired" from the working world, AND so so-called "social world".. Im just here to help out my fellow incels in dealing with their situations, and maybe help them come to terms with themselves, and maybe teach some of them how to enjoy SOME aspects of life at least, while being true to themselves and who they are! NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF for OTHERS, just yourself, thats what counts..
 
Lordgoro said:
Hehe, since my life is only about myself, and im the one that has to LIVE it, and I love my looks, I CERTAINLY would ALWAYS be TRUE to myself! Otherwise whats the point of existing? If women dont like my looks, I really couldnt give a ѕhit less, not my problem at this point.. At 48, Im "retired" from the working world, AND so so-called "social world".. Im just here to help out my fellow incels in dealing with their situations, and maybe help them come to terms with themselves, and maybe teach some of them how to enjoy SOME aspects of life at least, while being true to themselves and who they are! NEVER CHANGE YOURSELF for OTHERS, just yourself, thats what counts..
Making yourself more attractive because you yourself want to shag girls is the same as educating yourself because you want a job, in both situations your improving yourself to make yourself wanted be it as a sexual partner or employee because you want to be them things
 

Lordgoro

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Luckily at this point, Ive got bigger fish to fry... Actual INCELS on this site will understand.. Its obvious you dont have a clue about loving yourself, and accepting yourself as well.. To change to IMPRESS anyone else(especially women) is selling out, and abhorrent to me..
 
Lordgoro said:
Luckily at this point, Ive got bigger fish to fry... Actual INCELS on this site will understand.. Its obvious you dont have a clue about loving yourself, and accepting yourself as well.. To change to IMPRESS anyone else(especially women) is selling out, and abhorrent to me..
While i respect your love of yourself even while receiving no sexual attention most people want sexual attention and female biology isnt going to change and so improving yourself to recieve more is a good idea, the girls aren't making a consious choice to not be attracted to us
 

Lordgoro

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Ive got enough Pοrn to last the rest of my lifetime... Also, Im heading to vegas soon for some escorts, and considering a sex doll as well.., So im good.. Im just here to offer advive to ACTUAL incels for dealing with their situation, and acceptance, and hopefully finding some moments of joy regardless
 
Lordgoro said:
Ive got enough pοrn to last the rest of my lifetime... Also, Im heading to vegas soon for some escorts, and considering a sex doll as well.., So im good.. Im just here to offer advive to ACTUAL incels for dealing with their situation, and acceptance, and hopefully finding some moments of joy regardless
What's the point working for money then using it to pay for sex when you could work on yourself and get it for free, either way sex is a reward for work
 
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