I hate how I look.

RadioReka

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No one takes me seriously for the way I look, especially women. But it’s even guys too and it’s pissing me off. I can never get a date or anyone to like me because I swear to god puberty did nothing.
I’m 19 years old and I get mistaken for 13 or 14 all the time. Girls see me as a little kid even if I’m older than them!! I feel awful and I don’t think anyone could ever like me romantically because they see me as a child.
I feel like girls always talk down to me, they refer to me as kid or boy. The other day a girl referred to me as cute (this is a girl I’ve like for years and years) for the first 5 seconds I was ecstatic, I was so happy, I thought maybe just maybe a girl is attracted to me.
But no, she meant cute in a toddler kind of way.
It just makes me so angry, and I’ve asked people (girls and boys) to stop talking about me like I’m less than them. But no one cares, they just laugh and play it off like a joke.
I feel so ugly and worthless all the time, no one listens to me.
 

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tremor

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That might be delayed puberty. Hate to give false hope, but one guy I knew didn't start to mature at all until 18, then he grew a couple of inches and got a deeper voice.
And it still was over for him, even though suddenly gaining an inch or two in height couldn't possibly feel bad

Tbh you should consult your doc.

Also, clothes and haicut won't make you manly, it's about confidence and personality genetically pre-determined Chad facial features and height.
 

lordcel

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Sometimes I wonder if the people here are memeing, I digress. You are okay looking dude, just take care of yourself and work with what you got, do what ever you want. Girls gravitate towards guys who don't give fucks. If you have some kind of mental illness, try to get help. Regarding your young look, some girls might like it. You aren't that ugly, maybe a... 5/10? So you could easilly net 2/10's if you aren't shallow. If you want a 6-10/10, you will have to work on yourself and your view of things.

Anyway, regarding your current situation. Either laugh with them, or call them out. Surround yourself with people who respect you. You deserve respect. You can also just laugh with them and not take them seriously. My friends called me a faggot/retard everyday at school for fun. I coped with it by acting like a faggot retard, I now enjoy it. Learn to laugh at yourself and make light of it if you want to take that route. Good luck on your journey lad.
 

tremor

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lordcel said:
Sometimes I wonder if the people here are memeing, I digress.
Cope.
You are okay looking dude, just take care of yourself and work with what you got, do what ever you want. Girls gravitate towards guys who don't give fucks.
Legit. To be precise, he will gravitate towards some of them because their body mass makes them eligible for planet status. Of course, in his frame of reference they will gravitate towards him. Landwhales are indeed automatically not more than 2/10. Too bad they want Chad.
You aren't that ugly, maybe a... 5/10?
Elab. He has like no low-third, is probably manlet and/or framelet, and eye-area looks weird. Also might have started balding, because the hairline is pretty high.
If you want a 6-10/10, you will have to work on yourself and your view of things.
Just w0rk 0n y0ur pers0nality.
Are you kidding or something?
 

lordcel

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If you want a 6-10/10, you will have to work on yourself and your view of things.
Just w0rk 0n y0ur pers0nality.
Are you kidding or something?
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Somewhat, I guess this forum is more about roasting and bathing in self loathing. My bad. He's not that ugly imo. I've seen worst looking guys with 6+ chicks. He'll just have to accept that the girls he dates will be having a side of chad every once in a while. Otherwise he might aswell black pill.
 

tremor

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lordcel said:
He'll just have to accept that the girls he dates will be having a side of chad every once in a while. Otherwise he might aswell black pill.
Just be a cuck br0.
 
i tried to reply before but im p sure it glitched
some advice from a ftm who's been emasculated alll the tiiiiiimmme
-bowl cuts/bangs always look juvenile, not having bangs makes you automatically look older (seriously, look up 40 year olds w bowl cuts they all look fucked up bc its a kid haircut)
-tall ass boots or insoles to look taller
-there are fashion guides out there, ill fetch em if you want em since i know you're in a shitty place rn and ive been doin p good lately (art is a good cope)
-see a doctor if u think its hormonal

tbh your foundation is strong, you have good teeth and clear skin plus a nice smile. cant give a rating since idk your height or voice situation but seems feasible
 

lordcel

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tremor said:
lordcel said:
He'll just have to accept that the girls he dates will be having a side of chad every once in a while. Otherwise he might aswell black pill.
Just be a cuck br0.
I'm just trying to follow your line of reasoning. This community is a fuсking meme, I'm done posting. I've legit thought that way for so long and I'm sure some people probably come here looking for serious advice. Alas, enforcing simplified dogmatic beliefs onto young teens or people who are more susceptible to succumb to such beliefs is ridiculous. It was fun reading some posts. I seriously hope most people on here don't take it too seriously. If you really believe what you are writing, I apologize for disrespecting it. I guess the best way to keep a joke going is to not admit that you are joking. Good job in doing so. Anyway, I apologize for offending you, have a nice day sir. I'm out. I don't belong here, I am an incel, but this forum is just mean't to whine and wallow in despair. goodbye.
 

lordoftheincels

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Lie about your age. By telling the truth women assume you are a liar. By lying they will assume you are telling the truth. In this way instead of seeing a young man trying to lie about his age, they will see a young man reasonably mature for his age.
 

tremor

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lordoftheincels said:
Lie about your age. By telling the truth women assume you are a liar. By lying they will assume you are telling the truth. In this way instead of seeing a young man trying to lie about his age, they will see a young man reasonably mature for his age.
High IQ, but JBs go for older Chad and Chadlites anyway, so he'd doubtfully have much benefit.
 
RadioReka said:
No one takes me seriously for the way I look, especially women. But it’s even guys too and it’s pissing me off. I can never get a date or anyone to like me because I swear to god puberty did nothing.
I’m 19 years old and I get mistaken for 13 or 14 all the time. Girls see me as a little kid even if I’m older than them!! I feel awful and I don’t think anyone could ever like me romantically because they see me as a child.
I feel like girls always talk down to me, they refer to me as kid or boy. The other day a girl referred to me as cute (this is a girl I’ve like for years and years) for the first 5 seconds I was ecstatic, I was so happy, I thought maybe just maybe a girl is attracted to me.
But no, she meant cute in a toddler kind of way.
It just makes me so angry, and I’ve asked people (girls and boys) to stop talking about me like I’m less than them. But no one cares, they just laugh and play it off like a joke.
I feel so ugly and worthless all the time, no one listens to me.
I know of a guy who still had a young look at your age; soft pale skin, hairless, kid face.. then in 2-3 yrs he grew an inch or 2, got hairy, developed a more chiseled face, and got a tan. Problem solved.
 

AHumanWoman

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M8 you still pretty much ARE a kid. Enjoy it, embrace it. You'll never be this young again. And yeah when you get older you'll grow into your looks but you look fine. Absolutely nothing wrong with your appearance. Don't be so down on yourself.
 

Ben

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Hollywood makes girls expect guys to look like they're 30 when they're supposed to be 16. It's such bullshit. You look normal, why can't they appreciate that.
 

lordoftheincels

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Ben said:
Hollywood makes girls expect guys to look like they're 30 when they're supposed to be 16. It's such bullshit. You look normal, why can't they appreciate that.
Tbh he looks to be about 12 not 16.

Also, nothing about how women choose male partners is even close to being fair.
 

Ben

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If he manages not to get fat and has a naturally good ass (round not flat or flabby) and if he has naturally broad shoulder shape, be could work out and become a chad in like 2-3 years ;) ;) Face don't mean much when it comes to Chad classification right? he might never have that angular chiselled face but if he's got a muscular body all over and he's not very very short he'll still be classed as Chad no?
 

lordoftheincels

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Ben said:
If he manages not to get fat and has a naturally good ass (round not flat or flabby) and if he has naturally broad shoulder shape, be could work out and become a chad in like 2-3 years ;) ;) Face don't mean much when it comes to Chad classification right? he might never have that angular chiselled face but if he's got a muscular body all over and he's not very very short he'll still be classed as Chad no?
Probably. But you'll have to ask the expert of chads, tremor, to be sure.

Also chicks love justin beiber so I think the key here is he needs to just not look like he's 12.
 

tremor

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Ben said:
If he manages not to get fat and has a naturally good ass (round not flat or flabby) and if he has naturally broad shoulder shape, be could work out and become a chad in like 2-3 years ;) ;) Face don't mean much when it comes to Chad classification right? he might never have that angular chiselled face but if he's got a muscular body all over and he's not very very short he'll still be classed as Chad no?
Fake news, face is the most important thing about Chad. You can't become Chad, this ѕhit is inherent. No gym for your face. Overweight Chad will still mog gymmaxed incel.

Even height is less important. At least it doesn't save me. Manlets with Chad faces are successful with females and I'm an incel. Idk, you need to really be Farquadmaxed for height to matter.



As for the "angular" thing, I think it's a bit of a meme and in real life female preferences for faces are more complicated and various.

So, I believe it's more reliable to define Chad on the basis of female attention he got in the past and gets now. If there were lots of it in the past and it's the same now, then it's Chad. A man can't statusmax and moneymax early in life without looks.

What some incels do by looking into universal Chad features via Tinder experiments and other indeed helps to reasonably approximate this ѕhit tbh, like Chad is popular, sub-Chad isn't, but on rare occasions what was supposed to be incel-tier gets a lot of matches. I don't do this research and therefore know little, just don't feel like it, even stalking whamanz online is more interesting and productive IMO tbh tbh tbh.
 

tremor

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Ben said:
If he manages not to get fat and has a naturally good ass (round not flat or flabby) and if he has naturally broad shoulder shape, be could work out and become a chad in like 2-3 years ;) ;) Face don't mean much when it comes to Chad classification right? he might never have that angular chiselled face but if he's got a muscular body all over and he's not very very short he'll still be classed as Chad no?
Fake news, face is the most important thing about Chad. You can't become Chad, this ѕhit is inherent. No gym for your face. Overweight Chad will still mog gymmaxed incel.

Even height is less important. At least it doesn't save me. Manlets with Chad faces are successful with females and I'm an incel. Idk, you need to really be Farquadmaxed for height to matter.



As for the "angular" thing, I think it's a bit of a meme and in real life female preferences for faces are more complicated and various.

So, I believe it's more reliable to define Chad on the basis of female attention he got in the past and gets now. If there were lots of it in the past and it's the same now, then it's Chad. A man can't statusmax and moneymax early in life without looks.

What some incels do by looking into universal Chad features via Tinder experiments and other indeed helps to reasonably approximate this ѕhit tbh, like Chad is popular, sub-Chad isn't, but on rare occasions what was supposed to be incel-tier gets a lot of matches. I don't do this research and therefore know little, stalking whamanz online is more interesting tbh tbh tbh.
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