I come in peace but also with some questions

Hi!

I don’t want to upset/anger anybody here because I know all you guys come here to vent your emotions and talk about your frustrations and I don’t want to disrespect that; I’m sorry if any of you feel upset by this.

To clarify, I’m a woman! I live somewhere in Toronto. I was thinking about the van attack that happened here a little while ago and just had some questions and honestly could not shake my curiousity no matter how hard I tried. I hope we can have a civil conversation? I don’t hate or dislike any of you, regardless of how you might feel about me.

Do any of you agree with/support what happened here? The attack was apparently carried out by a man who had the same frustrations as some of you. If so, why?

Do you guys still love and respect your mothers, grandmothers or sisters?

Is the incel movement based solely off sex? Is it really that important?

any opinions or replies are welcome and appreciated. Again, I’m sorry to barge into your safe spaces and fuck it all up.
 

BapoNoHacko

Incels.Net Regular
There’s days for me where I hаte women and could care less what happens to them... but other days my normal days where I think it’s wrong to kill someone over any reason. Yea I respect my mother and actually have a good relationship with her it’s just the girls my age (18-25) that I hate because well all my life I’ve just been judged based off of looks. To me it’s not about the sex because well I can pay for it, it’s the connection and relationship that I longed for and well I doubt I’ll ever get since I’m so messed up emotionally that no woman would love me. So yea
 
There’s days for me where I hаte women and could care less what happens to them... but other days my normal days where I think it’s wrong to kill someone over any reason. Yea I respect my mother and actually have a good relationship with her it’s just the girls my age (18-25) that I hate because well all my life I’ve just been judged based off of looks. To me it’s not about the sex because well I can pay for it, it’s the connection and relationship that I longed for and well I doubt I’ll ever get since I’m so messed up emotionally that no woman would love me. So yea
thank you for answering me, I appreciate it a lot. I’m sorry you have good days and bad days, while it does sadden me to see someone say they don’t care what happens to us, I respect your feelings and think it’s nice that you don’t feel that way all the time. I’m very sorry no women near you try to understand you or make an effort, that’s really sad. I’m not trying to sound condescending and I’m sorry if it comes off that way, but I do hope you find happiness in a relationship one day. Nobody deserves to be alone.
 

BapoNoHacko

Incels.Net Regular
thank you for answering me, I appreciate it a lot. I’m sorry you have good days and bad days, while it does sadden me to see someone say they don’t care what happens to us, I respect your feelings and think it’s nice that you don’t feel that way all the time. I’m very sorry no women near you try to understand you or make an effort, that’s really sad. I’m not trying to sound condescending and I’m sorry if it comes off that way, but I do hope you find happiness in a relationship one day. Nobody deserves to be alone.
Ahaha a relationship... always wanted one and I’ll never get to experience it
 
Ahaha a relationship... always wanted one and I’ll never get to experience it
There’s always a chance! I’m twenty two and have never dated anybody, but I generally believe there’s someone out there for everybody. I’m trying really really hard not to offend or upset anybody because that’s honestly not my intention, but I truly hope you’ll find your happiness in the future. It ain’t over till it’s over!
 

BapoNoHacko

Incels.Net Regular
There’s always a chance! I’m twenty two and have never dated anybody, but I generally believe there’s someone out there for everybody. I’m trying really really hard not to offend or upset anybody because that’s honestly not my intention, but I truly hope you’ll find your happiness in the future. It ain’t over till it’s over!
I’m going to end my road soon... so I’m sure you’ll end up happy :) I’m 21 and dead pretty much
 

StrangeMan1

Malicious Wraith
Staff really need to get this section locked down tight. @BapoNoHacko Why? You are at my age, you are young man with many years ahead of you. Do not throw it away because of a disloyal female
 
I’m going to end my road soon... so I’m sure you’ll end up happy :) I’m 21 and dead pretty much

PLEASE DON’T SAY THAT OH MY GOD You’re only twenty one! There’s a whole world out there, full of people. Not all women are garbage even if it doesn’t seem like it right now. Please don’t take away your chances of happiness so early on.
does anything i’m saying even make sense or does it all just sound like dumb cliches!? I’m panicking I’m sorry.
 

BapoNoHacko

Incels.Net Regular
PLEASE DON’T SAY THAT OH MY GOD You’re only twenty one! There’s a whole world out there, full of people. Not all women are garbage even if it doesn’t seem like it right now. Please don’t take away your chances of happiness so early on.
does anything i’m saying even make sense or does it all just sound like dumb cliches!? I’m panicking I’m sorry.
Just sounds like things people normally say to just try and make the person feel better but aren’t true. It’s not your fault I’ve been contemplating last few months.... think it's the best. I have no motivation or drive to do anything with my life and the one thing I ever wanted I will never have because of my looks and messed up emotions so it’s the best for ne
 
Just sounds like things people normally say to just try and make the person feel better but aren’t true. It’s not your fault I’ve been contemplating last few months.... think it's the best. I have no motivation or drive to do anything with my life and the one thing I ever wanted I will never have because of my looks and messed up emotions so it’s the best for ne

I’m very sorry you feel that way. I realize that nothing I say could ever help you, but I hope you find peace. You honestly seem like a nice person in the short amount of time I’ve gotten to speak to you.
 

Tupolev

Спецназ
I don't support what Alek did in Toronto, nor do i support what Ellіot did in Isla Vista.

With that being said, what do you think is going to happen, as the suіcіde rate among men increases ? Is it safe to say that the homicide rate will increase as well ? Feminism has destroyed the family unit. Men no longer feel a sense of purpose and meaning.

When you take away the purpose and meaning of millions of men, there becomes a void for them to fill. Most will fill the void with video games, pornography, alcohol, drugs, and unhealthy comfort foods. However, there's likely going to be a small percentage that turn to destruction instead.

So in a way, feminism is reaping what it sows when these unfortunate events occur. Though such a sentiment would NEVER be admitted by feminiѕts.
 

DontWakeMe

Incels.Net Master
Do any of you agree with/support what happened here? The attack was apparently carried out by a man who had the same frustrations as some of you. If so, why?

No he killed innocent people and damaged the lives of their loved ones. He wanted to the cop to shoot him but it didn't happen.

Do you guys still love and respect your mothers, grandmothers or sisters?

I don't really respect my mom but I care about her.

Is the incel movement based solely off sex? Is it really that important?

Ultimately we are humans with needs. Us Incels are undesirable so it's harder to fulfil our social needs. We're incels but I think it's about more than just sex, because you can pay for that. I think we want a normal relationship that so many normal people get to enjoy. I've slowly come to the realization that if I want a women around me, I have to pay,, it's the same for her to sleep with me. My ego has long since been annihilated. I just want someone outside of my family to genuinely want me, but nobody does.
 
I don't support what Alek did in Toronto, nor do i support what Ellіot did in Isla Vista.

With that being said, what do you think is going to happen, as the suіcіde rate among men increases ? Is it safe to say that the homicide rate will increase as well ? Feminism has destroyed the family unit. Men no longer feel a sense of purpose and meaning.

When you take away the purpose and meaning of millions of men, there becomes a void for them to fill. Most will fill the void with video games, pornography, alcohol, drugs, and unhealthy comfort foods. However, there's likely going to be a small percentage that turn to destruction instead.

So in a way, feminism is reaping what it sows when these unfortunate events occur. Though such a sentiment would NEVER be admitted by feminiѕts.

I guess I never really thought of it like that, thank you for your opinion.
 
Do any of you agree with/support what happened here? The attack was apparently carried out by a man who had the same frustrations as some of you. If so, why?

No he killed innocent people and damaged the lives of their loved ones. He wanted to the cop to shoot him but it didn't happen.

Do you guys still love and respect your mothers, grandmothers or sisters?

I don't really respect my mom but I care about her.

Is the incel movement based solely off sex? Is it really that important?

Ultimately we are humans with needs. Us Incels are undesirable so it's harder to fulfil our social needs. We're incels but I think it's about more than just sex, because you can pay for that. I think we want a normal relationship that so many normal people get to enjoy. I've slowly come to the realization that if I want a women around me, I have to pay,, it's the same for her to sleep with me. My ego has long since been annihilated. I just want someone outside of my family to genuinely want me, but nobody does.
I’m starting to learn a lot of you just want to be happy with somebody, which is completely valid and something I never really considered. thank you for sharing your thoughts with me.
 

love

Femoid
Staff really need to get this section locked down tight. @BapoNoHacko Why? You are at my age, you are young man with many years ahead of you. Do not throw it away because of a disloyal female
Locking it down tight isnt solving any problem. Hes going through a break up and needs complex help for mental health. Locking a forum isnt going to somehow stop the mental health thats here. Maybe what would help is having a suіcіde hotline number posted and references for where to get help.
 

StrangeMan1

Malicious Wraith
Locking it down tight isnt solving any problem. Hes going through a break up and needs complex help for mental health. Locking a forum isnt going to somehow stop the mental health thats here. Maybe what would help is having a suіcіde hotline number posted and references for where to get help.
If this section makes him post things like that publicly on the internet it means something is very wrong. Do not downplay it by suggesting that he should merely get help. It is best not to let it develop so badly in the first place
 
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