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No, they're quite wrong. For a real relationship to last, friendship is a huge part of it, from start to finish. I've just come onto this site and can identify a lot of pain at what is perceived as rejection, which in turn can turn to anger if it happens often enough. So many people - men and women, boys and girls - are hooked on the idea of looks being the be-all and end-all. For some people that is true. Who however wants to spend their entire life with a physically attractive person if they lack in personality, kindness and generosity of spirit? I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone. Please don't be put off by an insensitive put-down or refusal - you don't know the state of mind of that person, perhaps they've just extricated themselves from a toxic relationship and are scared to commit themselves. Don't let yourself feel hatred, you are better than that. Be true to yourself, don't try too hard (too full-on/pushy) and it will happen. I write as an older female, a mum of boys, who knows that some girls can be thoughtless and mean. Some, but by no means all
