How many of you have tried to improve yourselves?

[nazbolbanda]

Because the majority of incels seem to be "blackpilled" I find this topic really interesting.

How many of you self-proclaimed incels have tried to lose weight, get a haircut, get into dressing well and trying to be more social?
Not talking about bone structure and other genetic things, just things everybody can change.
Also another question, since I know many incels can't just "act like themselves", have you ever tried to act like chads?

 

[Nostalgicel]

probably around 80%

 

[Ravio]

Hard to tell but in my case i don't have time/cash to go around in clubs or other places to socialize, i might not be the most beautiful guy on earth but i don't understand why i don't get a single match on these dating sites or why if i try to directly approach a girl i get instant rejection....

 

[lordoftheincels]

Hard to tell but in my case i don't have time/cash to go around in clubs or other places to socialize, i might not be the most beautiful guy on earth but i don't understand why i don't get a single match on these dating sites or why if i try to directly approach a girl i get instant rejection....

Usually I blame feminism but when a problem is this repetitive in nature I look for alternative explanations, could be that we are stuck in a bad dimension or something.

 

[Lordgoro]

Hard to tell but in my case i don't have time/cash to go around in clubs or other places to socialize, i might not be the most beautiful guy on earth but i don't understand why i don't get a single match on these dating sites or why if i try to directly approach a girl i get instant rejection....

Usually I blame feminism but when a problem is this repetitive in nature I look for alternative explanations, could be that we are stuck in a bad dimension or something.

90 percent chance this is the case... I remember back in the 80s it was completely DIFFERENT!! In literally every way!
By the way, in MY case, I LOVE myself, and how I look, even if women do NOT!! Its against my very being to CHANGE myself to please someone else... Just cannot do it... Not in this lifetime or any other..

 

[ortharzeal]

https://incels.net/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=838

Also

 

[lordoftheincels]

90 percent chance this is the case... I remember back in the 80s it was completely DIFFERENT!! In literally every way!
By the way, in MY case, I LOVE myself, and how I look, even if women do NOT!! Its against my very being to CHANGE myself to please someone else... Just cannot do it... Not in this lifetime or any other..

I guess my question is in the 80s why were you still incel? In the 90s and early 2000s I think I still had a chance. Those were the days when females actually had some kind of morality and ethics.

 

[Lordgoro]

90 percent chance this is the case... I remember back in the 80s it was completely DIFFERENT!! In literally every way!
By the way, in MY case, I LOVE myself, and how I look, even if women do NOT!! Its against my very being to CHANGE myself to please someone else... Just cannot do it... Not in this lifetime or any other..

I guess my question is in the 80s why were you still incel? In the 90s and early 2000s I think I still had a chance. Those were the days when females actually had some kind of morality and ethics.

Early 80s I was a young teen.. Was in a boys home for years.. Not around girls at all.. After I started living with my mother again,as a late teen I was only there for a few months,just long enough to take my GED, then I ended up starting my homeless adventures after that as a LATE teen, and was too busy surviving, and exploring america,on foot, bicycle, bus,freight train, and its been like that for 35 years, until just a few years ago when I finally ended up getting free housing.. I also had a job with animals in las vegas for a few years, and a small apt, then moved in with roommates.. By that time I was in my late 30s, and no women were interested in me then either... Thats when I started using escorts.. In vegas, when I had a little extra money to spend..
So doesnt matter what time period I was in, women never noticed me, ignored me, and had NO interest(except the escorts, and they ONLY care about the money anyway)... And now Im 48, and Im done.. I will use my backpay to go back to vegas for a month and enjoy myself at least...

 

[lordoftheincels]

Pretty much this. After around age 18 or so its over. After that age, women could see you drop dead and not even bat an eye. Although there was some homeless guy in the news who got laid 24/7, don't know how, lookwise he didn't even look like a gigachad, he was a complete junkie with zero care of the future (so much for edumacation), and his voice sounded like an FTM (so much for muh maskulinity). Maybe that is why, because FTM and women refuse to fuck anyone born male, even MTFS (unless chadstacys.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3yCcXgbKrE

 

[Lordgoro]

Thats a CLASSIC song, by the way.. I LOVE oldies... Everytime I hear this song, I cant help but think of 12 monkeys! You want a DARK DEPRESSING DEEP movie, watch that one! One of bruce willis's and brad pitts BEST movies! Its VERY DARK THOUGH!! haha

 

[lordoftheincels]

I was trying to use the song as sarcasm.

 

[Ravio]

90 percent chance this is the case... I remember back in the 80s it was completely DIFFERENT!! In literally every way!
By the way, in MY case, I LOVE myself, and how I look, even if women do NOT!! Its against my very being to CHANGE myself to please someone else... Just cannot do it... Not in this lifetime or any other..

I guess my question is in the 80s why were you still incel? In the 90s and early 2000s I think I still had a chance. Those were the days when females actually had some kind of morality and ethics.

Early 80s I was a young teen.. Was in a boys home for years.. Not around girls at all.. After I started living with my mother again,as a late teen I was only there for a few months,just long enough to take my GED, then I ended up starting my homeless adventures after that as a LATE teen, and was too busy surviving, and exploring america,on foot, bicycle, bus,freight train, and its been like that for 35 years, until just a few years ago when I finally ended up getting free housing.. I also had a job with animals in las vegas for a few years, and a small apt, then moved in with roommates.. By that time I was in my late 30s, and no women were interested in me then either... Thats when I started using escorts.. In vegas, when I had a little extra money to spend..
So doesnt matter what time period I was in, women never noticed me, ignored me, and had NO interest(except the escorts, and they ONLY care about the money anyway)... And now Im 48, and Im done.. I will use my backpay to go back to vegas for a month and enjoy myself at least...

You should write a book about those 35 years homeless, maybe you'll get lucky and get famous

 

[Lordgoro]

Im actually slowly working on that! Im stuck in the intro at the moment... But not just about the homeless years, but my life has been so absurd, wierd, and out of the ordinary, theres a LOT more then just homelessness to put down... Its a LONG work in progress..

 

[TheUnworthy]

You'd be surprise how many of us actually have good haircuts and a good weight.
How many of us actually care more about our hygiene than most Chads. Of course, I guess your little brain can't process that

 

[kaumak]

I cut my long hippie hair that I loved and took me over 3 years to grow. I've been going to the gym for 4 months and I'm actually starting to get jacked. Hasn't helped me with women at all.

 

[love]

I cut my long hippie hair that I loved and took me over 3 years to grow. I've been going to the gym for 4 months and I'm actually starting to get jacked. Hasn't helped me with women at all.

And personality? Social skills?

Looks aren’t everything

 

[kaumak]

I cut my long hippie hair that I loved and took me over 3 years to grow. I've been going to the gym for 4 months and I'm actually starting to get jacked. Hasn't helped me with women at all.

And personality? Social skills?

Looks aren’t everything

Well, I was at the gym and I was checking out this cute girl a couple machines in front of me, she was on the eliptical. She kept looking back at me, i thought she was interested so I went up and asked her out. She looked at me for a sec and said "ummm, I'm seeing someone" and walked away. I made a Tinder account and I've been through everyone and got no matches. I've seen some of the same people 5+ times. I've been through the whole pool. I'm moving soon thankfully, even though that won't help.

 

[love]

I cut my long hippie hair that I loved and took me over 3 years to grow. I've been going to the gym for 4 months and I'm actually starting to get jacked. Hasn't helped me with women at all.

And personality? Social skills?

Looks aren’t everything

Well, I was at the gym and I was checking out this cute girl a couple machines in front of me, she was on the eliptical. She kept looking back at me, i thought she was interested so I went up and asked her out. She looked at me for a sec and said "ummm, I'm seeing someone" and walked away. I made a Tinder account and I've been through everyone and got no matches. I've seen some of the same people 5+ times. I've been through the whole pool. I'm moving soon thankfully, even though that won't help.

That’s why I keep saying don’t cold approach. The chance of rejection goes up because you don’t know if they are even single or maybe they are a lesbian. You never know. The key is finding females in a social circle or a group, program, club, or through friends of friends.

 

[kaumak]

And personality? Social skills?

Looks aren’t everything

Well, I was at the gym and I was checking out this cute girl a couple machines in front of me, she was on the eliptical. She kept looking back at me, i thought she was interested so I went up and asked her out. She looked at me for a sec and said "ummm, I'm seeing someone" and walked away. I made a Tinder account and I've been through everyone and got no matches. I've seen some of the same people 5+ times. I've been through the whole pool. I'm moving soon thankfully, even though that won't help.

That’s why I keep saying don’t cold approach. The chance of rejection goes up because you don’t know if they are even single or maybe they are a lesbian. You never know. The key is finding females in a social circle or a group, program, club, or through friends of friends.

I've been cold approaching lately because the "befriending first and see what happens from there" never works. Every woman I've ever befriended never wanted to be more than that. I've always been the best friend. I've always been like a brother. The advice I was given from many people was to be more upfront and honest with what I want. Now people are telling me the opposite. Nothing works. I'm hopeless.

 

[Lordgoro]

Well, I was at the gym and I was checking out this cute girl a couple machines in front of me, she was on the eliptical. She kept looking back at me, i thought she was interested so I went up and asked her out. She looked at me for a sec and said "ummm, I'm seeing someone" and walked away. I made a Tinder account and I've been through everyone and got no matches. I've seen some of the same people 5+ times. I've been through the whole pool. I'm moving soon thankfully, even though that won't help.

That’s why I keep saying don’t cold approach. The chance of rejection goes up because you don’t know if they are even single or maybe they are a lesbian. You never know. The key is finding females in a social circle or a group, program, club, or through friends of friends.

I've been cold approaching lately because the "befriending first and see what happens from there" never works. Every woman I've ever befriended never wanted to be more than that. I've always been the best friend. I've always been like a brother. The advice I was given from many people was to be more upfront and honest with what I want. Now people are telling me the opposite. Nothing works. I'm hopeless.

Us incels usually ARE