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Well, I have seen a great many different people on here, but none quite like myself. I most certainly want to be in a relationship, not particularly for sex, although it's an eventual part I am not focused on it, but I cannot seem to. I don't blame women, I don't blame other men, I don't blame society, I blame only myself because of the way I am. I respect women immensely, and I understand that if they're not attracted to me, they're not. It's not their fault, they don't choose whom they are attracted to, it's the way I am and I cannot change who I am. Shameful or not, I would far be the submissive one in any romantic relationship. I don't have any strong female friendships that I would feel courageous enough to pursue into a romance, and it just doesn't seem like I'm the type of person that could form one. I am not any dominating, aggressive, male, I definitely don't want to be seen as a creep or pervert or anything like that. My personality, for God knows why, just doesn't seem to be attractive to any girls, and I cannot change that. I blame only myself and the way I inherently am for my "inceldom" and I don't hate women nor do I put them at fault. I am, however, very saddened when I see some "Chad" constantly deflecting girls away that basically throw themselves at him, without him giving any sort of effort,bseeing him only settle for someone he finds to be perfect. I have a friend that does this thing, and I sometimes find it difficult to call him a friend. I myself find it very, very, difficult to find a girl unattractive. I suppose if she is morbidly obese or critically deformed I am not attracted to her, but otherwise just about every woman I would be alright in a relationship with. And if a girl, God forbid, had the courage to ask me out, I find it extremely unlikely that I would think to decline. Once more, I respect women and their choices, and I blame only myself and my own cowardness, unattractiveness, bad luck, or whatever I have for my inability to find a relationship. Would I even be considered an "incel" at this point? I mean, I see people on here that hate women and think they're "entitled" to a relationship, which I find disturbing and ridiculous.