finally talked to a girl... did NOT go well.

lostinforever

Incels.Net Junior
just yesterday i was on campus sitting in the grass alone (as per usual), when i made eye contact with a total cutie (5/10). she was also alone so she smiled at me and i made up the courage to wave back and walk over. as i walk over i said something about how short she was and she looked at me like i had 12 heads. what the fuck is wrong with her? typical femoid, all i'm trying to do is compliment her and be an alpha bc that's what all the chads do, but it always turns out like this for me. this is why incels never get a fucking break.

regardless, even though i bombed that first impression, we talked for a bit and she even called me nice! she told me that she eats lunch at that spot on campus at the same time every monday/wednesday/friday. i feel like she told me that so that i would go back, what do you think? should i go back or is it just a setup?
 

WelcomeToMyDNA

I am who I am and I can be no other
Nice = code for ugly, but with a good """personality""""

As for being alpha -- that only works for Chad. If an incel is "alpha" it'll just come off as rude, creepy, and demanding. Just be Chad br0. As for her smiling, it could be just virtue signaling on her part. "Oh look at me, I'm so kind! I smile at strangers who don't even find attractive, I'm so sweet! Teehee"

But, nevertheless, you might have a chance. A 5/10 is pretty average, so who knows? You might ascend. But make sure to not become some soyboy orbitor if she rejects you.
 

ortharzeal

EteRnal Evil.
If she was interested in you comimg back, she would tell you in such a way that you would have no doubts. They are biorobots aimed at attracting Chad regardless of his IQ, mind games aren't related to female attraction anyhow.
 

SexDemon

Incels.Net Junior
It is going to be sucker the first time. I remembered when I first approached a girl after a really long break. I held the conversation for two minutes before I made a run for it. This shit gets better with practice.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
Shyness is only due to the illusion that women have soft sensitive personalities on the inside. Once you realize they are mostly either vampires, demons, or lesbians, the idea that you are a bad person for wanting to be loved kind of goes away. The blue pill illusion is that women are gods that you are unworthy of.
 

Lordgoro

MAD as a Hatter!
candilane59 said:
Lordgoro said:
Id bet you have ZERO CHANCE!!! She called you "nice".. its over... Welcome to the FUTURE friend zone..
you’re a dick dude
WHY am I a DICK for telling the TRUTH? Hes SCREWED! In the friend zone, why DEGRADE himself further? Im a REALIST man!! I KNOW how it will turn out...
 

Immawomansup

Incels.Net Junior
Yeah totally! :D She seems like she'll like to make friends with you despite you calling her short. It seems she might be a little sensitive to people calling her short. I understand I'm short too.
 

ok765

Incels.Net Novice
landwhalehater455 said:
This has happened to me multiple times, why dont women like guys who will love and support them instead of a chad who is interested in just fuсking and going?
I dont think all "Chads" are only intrrested into fucking, it s a common thing in all men who just dont want a relationship at the Moment
 

justforlolz

Incels.Net Junior
Everyones being so negative. She would not have told you her lunch schedule if she didn't like you. Maybe she won't fuck you, so? Hang out with her and have fun.
 

lordoftheincels

Incels.Net Master
justforlolz said:
Everyones being so negative. She would not have told you her lunch schedule if she didn't like you. Maybe she won't fuck you, so? Hang out with her and have fun.
things are notably more anxious when the dreaded friendzone is looming above your head
 

grabhimbythe

Incels.Net Junior
Is it me or did you expect her to jump on your dick with a statement about her short stature? Nothing about that is flattering or really approachable. Short women will probably have a Napoleon complex and do not like being talked down to and are typically the dominant type. Take it from me, I am 4'11 and do not like to be told that I am small, short, cute, and definitely do not pick me up. Your assumptions of trying to mimic a chad is at best an assumption and made you look like an ass. People just want to be people and be nice.

The fact that she told you she eats in the same location every day didnt totally destroy your chances. Next time, just be fucking normal and talk with her as a person, not some label or a becky or stacy or lafaunda or whatever the fuck terminology used to rate women (which is also extremely hypocritical but that's for another post I saw). Bitches be out here just trying to get by like every single person. Just be caring, confident, and have some morals.
 

Xenon

Incels.Net Novice
lostinforever said:
just yesterday i was on campus sitting in the grass alone (as per usual), when i made eye contact with a total cutie (5/10). she was also alone so she smiled at me and i made up the courage to wave back and walk over. as i walk over i said something about how short she was and she looked at me like i had 12 heads. what the fuck is wrong with her? typical femoid, all i'm trying to do is compliment her and be an alpha bc that's what all the chads do, but it always turns out like this for me. this is why incels never get a fuсking break.

regardless, even though i bombed that first impression, we talked for a bit and she even called me nice! she told me that she eats lunch at that spot on campus at the same time every monday/wednesday/friday. i feel like she told me that so that i would go back, what do you think? should i go back or is it just a setup?
maybe starting with a comment about how short she is wasn't the brightest idea ever, picture that in reverse, someone you don't know approach you stating right away something about your body with which you may be struggling, how wuld you have felt? " Oh, you are shorter than you look from a distance" is something which would put off anyone on the planet.
 
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