Hello, I hope no one is offended that a female is on here. I just want to say that I recognize incel struggles and I will never be able to imagine what everyone is going through and it honestly breaks my heart. After reading some threads I have thought back on my own life to see if I have encountered any incels and my reaction towards them. In high school I dated two incels. One boy was 5'4 and allergic to almost everything so his skin was always red and he had to wear gloves all the time. The other boy was asian and had a genuine hatred towards women because they would bully him. I was in both of their friend groups because we all liked edgy humor and I was bullied a lot for being biracial and almost 6 foot tall. I had very low self esteem so when they asked me out (on separate occasions, I did not date them at the same time), I said yes. However, because I was so depressed from the bullying, I cut both relationships short. Now before I dated both of them, girls at my school bullied them and ignored them but after, girls became interested in them. I don't know the logic in this but it happened. Both boys were still unattractive and had terrible social skills but they ended up getting girlfriends after that. Incels probably have a better understanding as to what this might be but I just thought this might be helpful to those who are still interested in finding a partner. My idea is to ask a friend who is a girl or pay a woman to pose on social media with you or walk with you on campus or even just fake text or call your significant other at work in front of other girls and Im pretty sure they will show interest in you. If this isn't helpful Im sorry. If you are uncomfortable with a girl on this website, I understand and I will leave. This post is intended to help and I hope it does.