Don’t Get Stuck

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Femoid
Before I start off: I have no reason or interest in lying to any of you. I don’t think I’m even going to bother to check back after I post. I’m just genuinely concerned for a lot of you.

I am: A bisexual female, so I have successfully experienced myself both being and dating women (so I’m sure my views on this are a lot clearer)

While I’ve been in happy relationships I’ve also been rejected. I am experienced on all sides, here. So please digest what I’m saying. I’m honestly worried for you.

No two people are the same. There is no group with exact clones. Females do not like to be treated like shit (for the most part), just like you men do not like being treated like shit (again... for the most part). Even in the common want to be cared for, there are exceptions. But the vast majority of everyone wishes to be treated like a human being.

Following that, most woman don’t go after “chads” purely because they look good. As someone who’s dated a man who turned out to just be “a pretty face” (I at first thought we shared common interest, we didn’t) it’s a very dull relationship. Most people don’t want someone just to show off for their face. I’d much rather show off how creative and smart and nice my husband is, rather than just have him look good. It’s boring and lonely. (No, cheating isn’t our go to solution. Most people don’t enjoy it, I hear it makes you feel disgusting and just heavy. Even then it’s usually just sex which again, gets boring very quickly).

So no. We don’t just go after chads. We go after people who we want to spend time with, because we enjoy their company.

Which brings me to my next point.

I browse r/niceguys, inceltears, and just flop accounts because I initially thought I was going to have a laugh. I was wrong for the most part, I’m just unsettled now. I get rejection sucks but with all love, sometimes it is your fault. Sometimes it’s the others fault. Sometimes it’s nobodies fault.

Point being, I know how a lot of you act by now. I’ve even met some of you in person. I can tell you why you’re not getting laid/girlfriends. Your personality is exhausting. Even the “ugliest” person can be a delight to be around. Even the “ugliest” person can find love. What you need to take care of first is your mental health, and your personality.

Due to rejection a lot of you seem to find yourself in a woman-hating pit. No girl wants to be with someone who views them as a separate, animal like species. Or someone who just hates them for being how they were born. That shit isn’t fun. Nobodies going to submit themselves to that nightmare on purpose.

Understand that there are very few differences from men and woman. Understand that no two people are the same just because they share a group or a label. There are sensitive men and there are cold ladies (reverse stereotypes if you didn’t get it, I know it’s common here to think woman are cold. Most of them aren’t unless provoked, you’re obviously making them put their guard up.)

We are all equal, but we are very different. We share a species. Treat woman as equals, that is your first step.

Now work on yourself. Do things that make you happy. Keep your body and mind active. Forget about sex and relationships, it’s a very small part of life. Learn to enjoy yourself before you throw yourself at someone else. Nobody wants to deal with their own struggles while also attempting to fix you. Practice self love.

Eventually you’ll put more time into your appearance. At first you may think your ugly, so work to change that. Shower, go on walks, shave, be hygienic (I know depression can make that hard, but I believe you can do it. Everyone has potential but it’s always an effort to accomplish it). You’ll have more confidence in your own looks. Your mental health will improve (you may need to see a therapist. There’s no shame in that, everyone can improve). Let go of labels and social pressure, it’s unneeded stress that only harms.

Learn to be happy. Learn to be confident. Learn to be kind, but to live for yourself.

Confidence shows, happiness shows.

Ugliness starts on the inside and it shines through to your appearance.
The same is said for attractiveness.

Have a healthy way of thinking, a healthy way of life, and your happiness will shine through.

I’m certain that’s why a ton of those “chads” are so attractive.

But the most important thing is always personality. Once you have that, everything comes easier.

But don’t be afraid to ask for help, and don’t give a shit about the negative other people throw at you. All that matters is you live freely and happily, and as long as you’re not threatening anyone else’s happiness, love and peace will come to you.

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Now quickly, onto why ladies seem cold towards you.

We are used to being treated like nothing else but something for men to view (Not all men, I know. But the minority of men are loud enough to drown out the good ones). We’re also used to being verbally and sometimes physically assaulted just because we did one thing some dude didn’t like. All girls have experienced that in some way, maybe even as young as a toddler. And even the few who haven’t noticed it, they’re taught to be careful. To always know how to escape.

So around people we don’t know, and there’s a dude who’s looking at her (or sometimes even not) she has to know what she’ll do if she needs to escape. If someone eyes her out, they could be looking for r*pe victims or sex trafficking victims, or they might just try to verbally harrsss her and make her feel gross (we don’t like weird compliments out of the blue. Maybe because we are afraid, or maybe we just feel weird when it happens).

So if she’s noticed you’ve noticed her, she already has her guard up. She’s most likely to be quick and try to get out of the situation if you approach her.

And that’s what she’ll do if you stop her randomly in public.

Now if you’re coming onto a friend, before you even ask her out. Don’t try to force in sexual comments or anything of the sort. Sex doesn’t come first most of the time. If you do, she may become offended because you’ve “betrayed the friendship”. Any gender can have a friend of any gender without expecting there to be sex involved (or else bisexual people wouldn’t be able to have any friends. Another surprise, sex isn’t the only thing on everyone’s minds. It’s not near as great as it’s played up here.)

If you’re interested in a friend, make sure you ARE friends first. Nothing sexual or heavily influenced, and if it is you must be certain the other person is 100% okay with it. Do not make things awkward.

Then as you slowly spend more time together, attempt to read her. You may not be able to, but that’s okay. Eventually you can ask her out. Don’t come on too strong, and don’t trap her in it. Make sure there’s room for her to say no and not feel pressured. Love cannot be trapped, it is mutual. It isn’t forced.

Remember, even if she says no, that’s okay. There’s always someone else. There is no “friend-zone” it’s just shooting your shot with a friend, understanding she wasn’t into it, and continuing to be her friend. Don’t be the one making it weird.

Not everything will be a win, not everything will be a lose. Just know with time and self care, you will find the person for you. You will find happiness and you won’t be ridiculed for it.

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Ending notes:

Porn is not an accurate representation of real life, most people’s lives do not circle around it. It’s a very tiny part of existence.

if you’re just going to pick apart one “hippie” or “sjw feminist bullshit” or say something homophobic just because I mentioned I was bi as a point, then you’ve clearly closed yourself off to growth and you’ll be stuck and low (there’s still hope, but you’ll need a shit ton more work to get there.)

Everyone can learn something from anyone. We’re all just trying to live and be happy. I hope that you can be happy, and make others around you happy. I know you can, with work.

With love
 
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StrangeMan1

Malicious Wraith
So to summarize: Fix mental health in order to maintain a relationship, put yourself first and all the other usual red pill advice.

At least that's going to work for some and you've put in more effort than the usual fix your personality br0 advice. The other women literally said to beta orbit forever and to bribe the incels' crush into dating.
 
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Sasaki

Von
Just take a shower br0
Just be confident br0
Just treat them like human beans br0

Ye nothin' new, heard all this shit before. Won't work. Also nice of you to assume Incels don't shower due to them not getting puss.
 

StrangeMan1

Malicious Wraith
Just take a shower br0
Just be confident br0
Just treat them like human beans br0

Ye nothin' new, heard all this ѕhit before. Won't work. Also nice of you to assume Incels don't shower due to them not getting puss.
Well there are some obvious bluepills that are fake news. For example that personality matters. The gulf sheikhs from Kuwait, UAE, Saudi-Arabia, Qatar are multi millionaires and buy themselves an entire harem aside from having four wives.
 

Sasaki

Von
Well there are some obvious bluepills that are fake news. For example that personality matters. The gulf sheikhs from Kuwait, UAE, Saudi-Arabia, Qatar are multi millionaires and buy themselves an entire harem aside from having four wives.
You're a woman right?
Do you think only looks matter?
 

BapoNoHacko

Incels.Net Regular
I don’t know why I wasted my time reading this... I like how she says to not assume yet she assumes incels don’t take care of their hygiene or body like some of you have pointed out. I also enjoy the fact that a woman who’s had relationships is telling us the guys who haven’t that relationships are meaningless.. that’s like a rich person telling people that money isn’t everything and then drives off in a Lamborghini. I felt pretty angry reading this tbh because this is all bullshit women are complete arrogant, shallow cunts who blame us for being incels when it’s their very gender that created us because we are not up to par to the bullshit standards their moronic head has come up with
 

BapoNoHacko

Incels.Net Regular
Oh, when a foid has autism she's quirky and special but when a boy has autism it's a death sentence
It’s funny you say this because when a woman has depression it’s normal and has men caring to fix her while us guys we are isolated and seen as worthless if we have depression and are told to fix it before we even try to find a relationship
 
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