Hello to those reading. I have a suggestion: try boosting your self confidence. Spoiler (I"m female and I'd say fairly attractive, though I have issues like everyone else - I was severely bullied in my younger years and it took many years to get past). As someone who has dated a variety of types of men I can say that men with confidence are more attractive seeming. This does't mean being arrogant or anything like that (this would be an unattractive trait) but that you should be comfortable in the skin you're in (easier said than done). Figure out what your pluses are and play off of those. Ladies are out there and willing to date if you gain confidence. Women immediately sense someone with no self worth and therefore won't date them. I can also say that most women will appreciate a guy who doesn't immediately want to get in their pants. Woman feel used when a guy tries to score on date one or two or even three and makes the entire relationship about sex.