Can gay men be incels? As there's so many flavours of gayness in the (L) GBT world now, they'd have to come up with a gay equivalent name to incel. I'd like to ask why you never see women in manual jobs in the construction and other industries. They're happy to wear a hard hat and boss the males, only won't or cant pick up a shovel, trowel, pneumatic drill etc. Interesting??