Being ugly hurts so much

WelcomeToMyDNA

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I hate getting up and looking at myself in the mirror. I'm ugly as ѕhit. And then I take my phone out and look at myself in the camera from different angles and I'm even uglier. Then I take a video of myself talking just to see how others see me and it's so ugly and painful to look at. I wish I could wear a mask all day.

How do you guys cope with being ugly? How do you look a female in her eyes and talk to her while being ugly? I looked a girl in her eyes while I talked to her at work the other day and I saw her eyes just wandering around my face as if my face was some kind of huge ugly mural. She seemed confused and astonished that someone as ugly as me even existed.
 

MaxCady

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There's no real cope, other than keep lean, get a haircut every 3-4 weeks, wash, dress, workout, diet.

An ugly man that takes care of his appearance gets a low blow. An ugly man that lets himself go gets a double low blow.
 

FCUK

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I’m the same man

Especially after a bad day of being ignored and treated less than human

I often film myself to see what others see and it hurts

I just hold on, normally end up playing on my computer, i could never bring myself to end it but it’s a pathetic existence
 

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FCUK said:
I’m the same man

Especially after a bad day of being ignored and treated less than human

I often film myself to see what others see and it hurts

I just hold on, normally end up playing on my computer, i could never bring myself to end it but it’s a pathetic existence
Yeah, never end it bro. Being ugly is a curse we just have to live and die with.
 

AfricanCel

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It's a hard life out here. I go to work and school, which helps me cope, but girls look at me like I committed a crime.
 

albie

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
albie said:
My ugliness is covered up with clothes. No woman need see my ugliness.
You're lucky your face isn't hideous like mine.
I think you have it easier than me. If I get a woman into bed I have a nice revelation for her to deal with. YOur ugliness is on display. YOu get it over with instantly.
 

StoicNihilist

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I know dude. Its hell. My face is ugly and asymmetrical. Its painful to even look at myself in the mirror.
 

AfricanCel

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Your not alone brother. I myself notice when am trying to talk to a girl in my college class to work on a group project, she squints her eyes at me and sometimes she has to look around me, just to avoid seeing my face. It's like when you go outside, you are constantly reminded of how ugly you are by normies because of how they act towards you. I may be an Incel, but I can read body language and facial expressions very good.
 
yeah i can read people pretty decently judging from my experience, i might be ugly as hell, but i still can tell their intentions just by looking at their expressions, usually my presence make other moids angry or discusted, so yeah. i learned to manipulate my own way, gain the mental control whether they like it or not, i suggest you to do it, ugly or not, stand your ground against high social hierarchy chads and stacys.
 

Pnuthed

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I'm fat and have an ugly face. I used to try to stay in shape but strangers would still oink at me and call me a pig. I think my face just stays fat and pig-like no matter what. If I dare converse with a female she will not make eye contact. If at work I say hi to a coworker they ignore me at least half the time because they don't want anyone else to know that they know me and females definitely don't want to give any indication of interest. I know I'm ugly, but some common courtesy would be nice.
 

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Pnuthed said:
I'm fat and have an ugly face. I used to try to stay in shape but strangers would still oink at me and call me a pig. I think my face just stays fat and pig-like no matter what. If I dare converse with a female she will not make eye contact. If at work I say hi to a coworker they ignore me at least half the time because they don't want anyone else to know that they know me and females definitely don't want to give any indication of interest. I know I'm ugly, but some common courtesy would be nice.
I know the pain, man. Being ugly is a curse. I don't know why some people are created ugly. I honestly believe that if a parent knows their kid is growing up to be ugly, they should just fuсking shoot him in the head and spare him of the inevitable agony that is to come.
 

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
Pnuthed said:
I'm fat and have an ugly face. I used to try to stay in shape but strangers would still oink at me and call me a pig. I think my face just stays fat and pig-like no matter what. If I dare converse with a female she will not make eye contact. If at work I say hi to a coworker they ignore me at least half the time because they don't want anyone else to know that they know me and females definitely don't want to give any indication of interest. I know I'm ugly, but some common courtesy would be nice.
I know the pain, man. Being ugly is a curse. I don't know why some people are created ugly. I honestly believe that if a parent knows their kid is growing up to be ugly, they should just fuсking shoot him in the head and spare him of the inevitable agony that is to come.
but they won't because they'll convince themselves that looks don't matter
 

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nootnoot said:
WelcomeToMyDNA said:
Pnuthed said:
I'm fat and have an ugly face. I used to try to stay in shape but strangers would still oink at me and call me a pig. I think my face just stays fat and pig-like no matter what. If I dare converse with a female she will not make eye contact. If at work I say hi to a coworker they ignore me at least half the time because they don't want anyone else to know that they know me and females definitely don't want to give any indication of interest. I know I'm ugly, but some common courtesy would be nice.
I know the pain, man. Being ugly is a curse. I don't know why some people are created ugly. I honestly believe that if a parent knows their kid is growing up to be ugly, they should just fuсking shoot him in the head and spare him of the inevitable agony that is to come.
but they won't because they'll convince themselves that looks don't matter
I wish so much that everyone understood that the most important thing in life is how one looks. It's vital to reproduction, success, love, etc. Good looks are literally the most important thing in life because when you think about it; attractiveness is the main deciding factor in a woman's choice to fuck a man. Therefore birth happens because a woman once decided that a man was so sexy she wanted to create another human being with him.
 

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
Pnuthed said:
I'm fat and have an ugly face. I used to try to stay in shape but strangers would still oink at me and call me a pig. I think my face just stays fat and pig-like no matter what. If I dare converse with a female she will not make eye contact. If at work I say hi to a coworker they ignore me at least half the time because they don't want anyone else to know that they know me and females definitely don't want to give any indication of interest. I know I'm ugly, but some common courtesy would be nice.
I know the pain, man. Being ugly is a curse. I don't know why some people are created ugly. I honestly believe that if a parent knows their kid is growing up to be ugly, they should just fuсking shoot him in the head and spare him of the inevitable agony that is to come.
I've seen people uglier than me getting laid. Do you think that this guy is ugly?

I've said in an other thread incel is some kind of metaphysical curse. Also, if you are an outsider, that can't emotionally connect with normies then you won't have a chance. Women's standards of 2019 are really narcissistic and over the top too.

Eggman apparently got laid at 18 and a woman invited him to have sex with him. That's more than most normies get, most normies have to approach. But he became incel afterwards because too high IQ and a higher man than the normies, an outsider unable to relate to his fellow man (or woman.)

I don't know how ugly you are, but being ugly definitely hurts your chances with women. If you are ugly you play life on Hard or Insane mode and have to try really hard to get someone to like you. If life had 5 difficulty settings, Female would be Super Easy, Giga Chad on Easy, Normie on Normal, Incel on Hard, Ugly incel on Super Hard mode. Just being incel hurts your chances, women can sense it and treat you worse because of your inability to know how to get laid.
 

Sandhill

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As someone else mentioned, stay in shape, get a haircut, practice good hygiene. Maybe update your wardrobe if you can afford it. I'd also recommend seeing a therapist and getting some anti-anxiety medication. Talking to a girl made you extremely nervous and in-your-own-head. Perhaps meds would help with that.
 

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Sandhill said:
As someone else mentioned, stay in shape, get a haircut, practice good hygiene. Maybe update your wardrobe if you can afford it. I'd also recommend seeing a therapist and getting some anti-anxiety medication. Talking to a girl made you extremely nervous and in-your-own-head. Perhaps meds would help with that.
Been thinking of taking meds, but I don't want my parents to think I'm crazy or anything. I'm so private and hidden that they don't know ANYTHING I talk about on here. Since I live with them, they'll know if I try and go see a therapist. Plus, I have a feeling meds might alter my mind in some way and make me worse.
 

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Sandhill said:
As someone else mentioned, stay in shape, get a haircut, practice good hygiene. Maybe update your wardrobe if you can afford it. I'd also recommend seeing a therapist and getting some anti-anxiety medication. Talking to a girl made you extremely nervous and in-your-own-head. Perhaps meds would help with that.
I've take meds before, it didn't work of course. Anti-depression meds never works
 

Sandhill

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WelcomeToMyDNA said:
Sandhill said:
As someone else mentioned, stay in shape, get a haircut, practice good hygiene. Maybe update your wardrobe if you can afford it. I'd also recommend seeing a therapist and getting some anti-anxiety medication. Talking to a girl made you extremely nervous and in-your-own-head. Perhaps meds would help with that.
Been thinking of taking meds, but I don't want my parents to think I'm crazy or anything. I'm so private and hidden that they don't know ANYTHING I talk about on here. Since I live with them, they'll know if I try and go see a therapist. Plus, I have a feeling meds might alter my mind in some way and make me worse.
I doubt they'll think you're crazy. If you're that closed off from them, they'll probably see it coming. Is there any family member you're close to that has struggled with a mental syndrome of some sort? Maybe you could go to them first. Nowadays a lot of people are open about their mental health. Having someone in your family you can tell anything to is a great thing but I understand that some people just don't have that.

Someone mentioned that antidepressant meds never work. There's some truth to that. If you're just taking medication and not going to therapy, you're building a biochemical dependence on the drug and not addressing the factors that make your psychology abnormal. So if you go the medication route, you HAVE to do at least semi-regular therapy sessions too. From what I understand, medication is usually not the first form of treatment a psychiatrist would choose - it's something to use if no other treatment works.

I have also read that regular exercise and a healthy diet has been found to be nearly as effective as therapy. So if you're not already doing that, perhaps you could start. Especially if you're weary about taking medication.

One thing is for certain - if you sit around and do nothing differently, you're not going to improve.
 
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