Every time a normal person who gets laid sees an incel venting about their loneliness their first instinct is to say shit like "it's not that big of a deal. Just don't worry about it. Don't rush it you'll get there. Relationships suck too. Just don't focus on it and you'll find it." etc etc. All their advice just boils down to "You're being melodramatic. Just stop crying about it loser." It's demeaning. You're belittling someone and their problems when you say shit like that. All their advice is just telling them how to cope with being alone. Incels have obviously been alone for forever. We know well enough how to do that. Stop telling us how to live with our problems and that they aren't real. It obviously is a big deal to us. Instead, help us fix it. Don't tell us to be complacent and wait. That doesn't work. Actually help us or don't say anything. We've heard it all before. We know you mean well and are just trying to help, but it really isn't helpful.