A girl in my college class approached me and asked me to hang out with her at the library, since I had nothing else to do that day, I decided to hang out with her, we talked for a bit and we both found out that we had so much in common to the point where our date of birth was exactly the same. We walked home together sharing her umbrella cause it was raining. She never ghosted me, never ignored my text, would always hit me up if I forgot to hit her up. I was into art, so was she, we listened to the same music, which I found amusing because the music we listened to is not what most people would listen to. We talked a lot everyday about politics, government, what we wanted to do with our life, she spoke of me to her mom, she told me about her family, I told her about my family and life also, we were so damn close, until I decided to ask her out 2 weeks after seeing each other, then she paused and looked me dead in the eyes for 6 seconds, and said maybe if we got to know each other a bit more, i thought maybe i should ask another time, then it was our birthday cause we have the same date of birth, i asked her to go and eat with me, she said she was going with her family, then i was like np. Few days later, i notice she was talking to a guy in the same class as me, and she took his number, he was all about Christianity, she fancied him, and even gave him a hug after meeting him in one day, but never gave me a hug after 3months of talking to each other. This guy was taller than me and had a chiseled facial structure. I noticed right after she talked to this guy, she would frown her face next to me, and as we walk side by side, she would be on her phone, this was when i realized she doesn't like me. So, i decided to stop messaging her everyday, but she would hit me up everyday, talking about herself and she would constantly attend the church this Christian Chad told her about. I felt like she was using me as an emotional tampon, but wouldn't date me. So, i decided to block her number for 2 months, and after the 2 months, i unblocked her number and got some messages, it sounded like she felt hurt, but i feel like why does she want to be friends to make me suffer when she knows am interested, but she choose to go after Christian chad. So far i haven't replied to her last message which she asks to confirm if this is my number, but i could feel her pain over the text messages and I've deleted her number for good, so i can heal mentally. I haven't heard from her in a year, so i guess we've gone our separate ways. I really thought we had something special going on because of the amount of similarities we both had. I thought maybe this girl was Godsent, until Christian chad took her away. I really miss her a lot, but can't stand seeing her with Christian chad because she shows him a lot of affection even though she's spent a lot of time with me. :cry: :cry: I might run into her in the future, and it will be awkward talking to her, who knows?